My boyfriend has never given me any reason to think he will cheat on me but I feel so down when I see a pretty girl when we are out together and have a go at him for looking! I know he loves me and looking is natural but it really gets me down and I don't want to be this way any more............HELP!!!!
2006-08-09 23:46:17 · 12 answers · asked by Tara B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well First And Foremost..It's Disrespectful for Him To Be Looking When He Is With You. But Some Men Can't Help It.
Then When You Feel The Jealous Urge come On, Just Remind Yourself..
Who's He Going Home With? Not Her..YOU!!
Who Does He Make Love To?..Not Her! YOU!!
Who Does He Say, "I Love You", To? Not Her! YOU!!
He'll Look At A Woman..But 2 Minutes Later He Won't Even Remember Her, And He'll Still Be With You.
It's Hard To Fight That Feeling. But It Is Possible.
Also Try Making Yourself Feel More Secure With Your Own Looks. A New Outfit, New Hairstyle, A Manicure, Or Pedicure.
All These Things Will Put A Spring In Your Own Step..So You Don't Think About The Other Women. Because You'll Be Feeling To Good About YOU!!!
You'll Even Turn A Couple Of Heads!!
Keep Your Head Up Girl..Your Not Alone On This One.
2006-08-10 01:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by XXSEXY66XX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excersise some self love and confidence that you are every bit as good as those other females. Everyone is different. Variety is the spice of life and your bf has obviously found his flavor because he is with you and not anyone else. Looking is natural. It is unnatural when he starts to act on it. Never let him see you sweat always hold your head up high and smile smile smile. Look good and feel good about yourself and you will be just fine.
2006-08-16 20:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you have to feel self confident in yourself and very secure of your looks. You feel other pretty girls are better than you. But you need to know that they are not in his eyes because he loves you, he just looks because he is a man. we women look if there is a nice looking guy walking by but we love who we are with and they don't mean absolutey anything at all.
So be assured that he is in love with you only and he only wants you. Take all other thoughts away from your mind.
Remember also how attractive you are and nothing else matter.
The jelousy will slowly fade. Be confident.
2006-08-10 09:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nanci 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm no psychiatrist but I would think that you lack self-confidence and self-worth. You keep comparing yourself to others and when you do that, you always find yourself on the short end. I'm sure you are beautiful as you are compassionate. Trust is the building block of a strong relationship. Can you be trusted?
2006-08-18 06:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by sleepy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way but someone once told me to join in like if we were together and i saw him looking at another chic i would look to and be like shes cute or shes got a big but girls may not look at other gils meaning to be les but we look and judge whether u admit it or not and to me it kind of worked i didnt feel as down about it anymore
try it
2006-08-17 21:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by ~*CoUnTrY gIrL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I know your feelings ...Even my boy friend do the same ....But now I have found an solution for this...When he comment a girl ...I say yes but that boy is also handsome so he become possessive and now he don't do the same...Love means passiveness ...If there is no possessiveness that means there is no love
2006-08-18 05:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by archu v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...think about what you just said! why do you let your emotions control you like this? I mean seriously, you're the one hurting the most. So next time it happens, catch yourself, and instead of having a go at him, look WITH him, and joke with him about it! It'll make it a lot easier for both of you :)
2006-08-18 04:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU HAVE SOME ISSUES WITH WHAT GOING ON, IF HE HAS GIVEN YOU A REASON TO NOT
TRUST HIM. THEN STOP IT, BEFORE YOU END UP
LOSING HIM.
2006-08-18 00:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask yourself? matbe it's in the genes that were passed to you from your ancestors..... hehehe. just stop thinking of things that are bothering you.
2006-08-18 06:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Isay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make him jealous to so he can really see how it feels. Dont just sit there and watch him check people out....join him
2006-08-16 16:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋