Why do men have to do all the hard work when it comes to the firts part of a relationship? Or am I just choosin the wrong women??
2006-08-09 23:34:44 · 34 answers · asked by bishbashbosh11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women have breasts my man, these are there to give, think of your mother possibly always giving, so when women are out (ok assuming you go out to find a date) they want wooed. The man does the chasing so that the woman can feel she is getting something in return - delayed gratification. It all evens out in the long run. Women want men to be men not children so give to her rather than asking for ... a dozen things (reassurance, ego massage, etc.). A woman might chase you one day but you will likely find that a bit creepy and unsettling even if you do not kow why
2006-08-09 23:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by northcarrlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially its really nice to have a guy chasing after you - it makes you feel really cool and wanted - however after about the 2nd date a lady should cool it and start showing similar interest to let the guy know she DOES like him!!!
I dont think its anything to do with the type women being wrong or right - just I think every lady likes to be wooed at the start - its just a pity that men kinda forget to do it anymore once you're in a settled relationship!!! I think thats why couples break up a lot of the time - theres no surprise or hard work planning things anymore - its just taken for granted.
2006-08-09 23:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women think that by chasing a guy, they are easy sluts.
It is down to some old fashioned values which do not apply any more but are still frowned upon.
Until the attitudes of general society change to make things equal then it will stay the case of the guys doing the chasing.
There are also those women who prefer the chase to being caught. Those are the worst ones to get involved with as they will be flirting with the next guy as soon as your back is turned.
2006-08-09 23:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by T C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me old fashioned but I have always thought that the man should make most of the first moves. But if I really like someone then I will do a little chasing myself, (i.e. calling him or sending him love letters or driving to see him) Most the time I find men so confusing. One minute they tell u to call them and then when u do they dont answer the phone. I think maybe some women dont want to come off as a bug-a-boo, so they let the man persue. So, I guess it just depends on the two people involved and how they operate.
2006-08-09 23:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by scorpio2644865 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was wondering that too.
It's the 21st century. I thought women would be doing more stuff that men would do. For example, on tv, women save the day more often.
In the 20th century, men would be saving the day all the time.
I'm 24 years old, and no woman has ever asked me out, ever!
They won't even start a conversation with me. I would have to start it if they were ever interested in the first place.
2006-08-09 23:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand, i never have this trouble... (only kidding). I think it comes down to the fact that if a guy 'goes' with a lot of women he is called a stud, while if a woman 'goes' with a lot of men, she is called a....... well, lets just say its more negative. (Which i stress is obviously wrong! But society sucks sometimes)
So women sometimes are happy to sit back and let the guy come on to them etc. I purely generalising here and it obviously doesnt count for everyone.
2006-08-09 23:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by rebelcj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you prefer women to chase you? which is more interesting? Think about it, but know always that when the hunter becomes the hunted, the kill is not worth the struggle. It would be so boring for women to be chasing after men.
2006-08-09 23:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Think-tank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I can say...
Guy's are always hunters. When girls start to chase them, usually they back off.
So it's alot better for guys to do the chase. It makes both parties interested.
If she IS interested, she'll definately show it in the date. Just ask her out 2 to 3 times, and you'll know. She will be showing her interest. If not, she's not that into you. Honestly.
2006-08-10 03:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you never watched nature. It is always the male who has to prance around and be brightly colored to attract the female, like a Peacock for example. The male always has to do the work.
Try to find a lass who is more appreciative, and if that fails put plan B into action and go for a fat chick!!
2006-08-09 23:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by chrisnewcars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come onnnn be a mannnnn!! Women like a hunter n' not a mouse! U probably went after the wrong women,Flirtin' is not a job
2006-08-09 23:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by maria32greece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋