How do i make myself more popular with girls?

Question

Man to tell you the truth i suck with girls, i lost my virginity at 19 and only slept with 3 girls, what places can i go to get girls and what things should i say?

Answer 1

Just be yourself. If they can't see you for you then they aint worth it. Casual sex is great but it aint nothing compared to having sex with someone who loves you for you. Don't change who you are mate, it aint worth the hassle.

Answer 2

to be popular with girls does not mean you sleep you sleeping with a dozen girls in a particular time and at your age sleeping with 3 girls is more than necessary, why cant you just be with one steady girl. And try to use the "only" as though at 19 one needs to sleep with a bunch of girls, thats wrong my boy, if you take like this way, you will lead yourself into a ditch that you will fail to come out of.

Answer 3

Learn how to be a good listener. Listen to what women say, and then you will know what it is that they want. You do not even have to speak in order for this to work so it should be pretty easy.

As for the rest, be genuine and polite, honesty and courtesy are rare and always valued.

Oh and never lose your sense of humour, you will need it to keep you sane in your search.

Women are not things that you "get" they are people. Treat them with the same respect that you would wish to be shown yourself.

good luck in your search

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Answer 4

If I read another piece of advice stating "be yourself" I will scream!

Women have breasts my man, these are there to give, think of your mother possibly always giving, so when women are out (ok
assuming you go out to find a date) they want wooed. The man does the chasing so that the woman can feel she is getting something in return - delayed gratification. It all evens out in the long run. Women want men to be men not children so give to her rather than asking for ... a dozen things (reassurance, ego massage, etc.). A woman might chase you one day but you will likely find that a bit creepy and unsettling even if you do not kow why, be the giving one you will recieve in return

Answer 5

First of all NEVER use a pick up line! (I hate those stupid lines!) I find it attractive if a guy is bold enough to come right up to me and is all like "Hey I'm______. What's your name?" Believe it or not that's how a conversation works. I guess it also depends on the girl, if you can tell she spent a long time tiring to make herself look good then maybe it should be "Hey I'm ______. I just wanted to tell you that you look really good." I guess the point is, don't use pick up lines and don't be shy, just talk to her like a normal person!

Answer 6

whats losing your virginity at 19 got to do with anything!!?
Just be yourself - join a local club - usually girls in those things - or join a dating agency - meet people in a similar situation there - and talk about anything - everyday topics/ what they like to do in their spare time/ fav music/ job - whatever!!! It isnt that hard !!

Answer 7

Clean up your act and stop thinking that girls are toys for your pleasure. You probably need a complete personality make-over and learn some self-respect and respect of women.

Answer 8

for starters get off the internet and get out there - you will meet people all over the place - relax and be yourself - if you have to think about what to say to girls they will pick up on your nervousness and won't like it

Answer 9

Its all about confidence man, just be happy with who you are and don't be afraid to try and chat with a girl. I was terrified for ages but now i just chat to them like they are a mate and usually it all goes well.

Answer 10

I LOST MY VIRGINITY IN MARRIAGE AT 22 N' DON'T GIVE A DAMN WHAT OTHERS DO OR SAY ABOUT IT!!! IF THEY JUMP OFF A BRIDGE I WON'T FOLLOW THEM SOOOOOO DON'T LOOK AT WHAT THE OTHERS R DOING EVERYBODY HAS HIS OWN PACE N' ETHICS!!!!IF U WANNA ATTRACT WOMEN THE BEST WAY IS TO BE COOL N' URSELF!