would it be ok to loose my virginity at age 14
2006-08-09 22:45:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Child you are way to young to even be thinking of sex. Do you realize that you are subjecting yourself to sexual predators here on line? YOu should be focusing on your schooling rather then boys right now. When you meet the man you intend to marry is when you should have sex. Save yourself for that man you love and want to be with the rest of your life. I am sure other folks feel different about this but for me as a mother of 5 and one of them is 15 right now, I would not allow her to do those things. I tell her like I am telling you. You are much to young to be thinking of having sex, yet alone, a relationship. Don't be a child raising a child. You are not yet fully developed into a woman yet. You still have alot of growing up to do. Don't grow up to fast by wanting to have sex. You would be creating a domino affect of this on those family memebers who love you. Your parents that love you would want you to succeed in life and experience new things. But this is not one of them. Don't disgrace yourself.
2006-08-09 23:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm tough question: OK to you or OK to everyone else including the law. It's nice that you are curios to find out about sex because the more you know about it the more comfortable you may feel when you choose too. However I feel you may be asking because you feel that you are getting a little pressure from somewhere to make the deed. Something to think about... Nobody that really cares about you will think of you any differently by staying a virgin. Infact they may even have a little more respect.
2006-08-10 05:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO its not ok to loser your virginity at 14. Stop thinking about sex and do other stuff before you end up being pregnant at an early age. Theres more to life than have a boyfriend to have sex. Do that when you are older, wait at least 7 yrs more.
2006-08-10 05:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by ******* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not suggest it. That is a big leap you are taking for your age. Listen I can't preach on this but one thing I would like to stress is that this guy should be able to appreciate the gift you are giving him so make him worth it. Because you will always remember this and you can never have your first time again. Sex is an unbeleivably wonderful thing.
2006-08-10 05:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Draco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO is not a good idea .......why would u want to loose at age 14 ......?? Because your curious about sex or because yr bf wants to have sex with you ??
You have the right to refuse sex till you are married and of coz u need to fully understand what is sex about ...You wont want to get yrself pregnant and get free gifts ( eg STD )??
Please consider well ....i wont encourage ..i am a mother to a 11 yr old girl ..i would feel hurt n upset if my daughter has gone thru that path at early stage ..
How would yr parents feel? Do consider their feelings n not just yrs alone ..
cheers :)
2006-08-10 05:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by pevans9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
14 seems a little on the young side. Sex is a big deal. Besides the risk of pregnancy and diseases, it really does have a huge emotional impact. I don't think many 14 year olds can really understand what a big deal it is. But if you do, please be very careful with your body and your heart.
2006-08-10 05:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your choice or Preference in men will change over the years and you might regret loosing it to the wrong person. there is no rush
2006-08-10 05:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by devsmash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I was the same age as well when I lost mine, I wish I had it all to do over again too so you might want to think about it for a bit, what's the rush? if I had it to do over again I would have waited a while longer
2006-08-10 05:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that you will never be able to shre that "First Time" with anyone else again. And when you find someone you actually want to marry instead of screw, and he asks you, "So...are you a virgin?", you can say, "No, I've actually been a slutty whore since I was fourteen!"
2006-08-10 05:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by insanitymanitee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You prob think its ok but you will regret it later in life. Your young enjoy life before you start worrying about sex.Enjoy your childhood years.
2006-08-10 05:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by a mother 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋