I rarely end up satisfied after sex with my boyfriend...how should I communicate this to him?
2006-08-09 22:35:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a night where he can't touch you and show him exactly how you need to be touched. He'll be an eager pupil.
2006-08-09 22:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't flat out tell him he sucks at sex. Just think about how you would feel if he said that to you. What you can do is ask him to do certain things to you that you know you enjoy. Most times the women isn't enjoying sex is because the guy has know idea what we like. Women have to teach men what and how to do it. we have to be open enough to tell then what to touch and how to touch it....etc. either before sex or during. Although it's best to tell them during so then you know they understand what your talking about and a guy thinks it's really hot when a women starts " begging" ohhhh touch my........... etc...
give it a try i guaranty he'll get better.
2006-08-13 20:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy Leaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your boyfriend well then you will find a way of how and where to approach him concerning such matters. but the most important thing is when doing so try as much as possible to be honest and in a loving manner since there is no one who is perfect but is for you as a spouse to direct him to perfection. he might be acting out of ignorance its high time you shore him areas that arouse you the most.
2006-08-09 22:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by pretoria_fish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you deliver this it proves which you're nonetheless naive. He cheated and you nonetheless desire to be with him? you like scumbags and abusive jerks? You deserve regardless of has and could take place in case you enable it back. he's probable in simple terms gonna do it back in case you enable him to accomplish that and probably even regulate his scheme. Why do you like him to 'instruct' that he can act in yet in a distinctive way than what he's before confirmed once you already know whats good? There are a lot extra fish interior the sea.
2016-10-01 21:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well t ell him that he sucks !!! (but in a good way)
u can also tell him that its good that he finish and everything, but if he can stop for once thinking in himself and asking you what u like , need and want ... will make everything better for both .
if he does not comply .. then stop giving him what he wants and start u giving urself what u want ..see what he does or feel LOL .
2006-08-09 22:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by starvoyager8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a mutual thing. your bf needs to know what he likes and more importantly what "you" like. and the same goes for you too. you need to know what your bf likes, and you need to know what "you" like. if you know what kind of stuff your body likes then you could teach it to him and he could perform it. only "you" know what you like. make it easy for your bf and just tell him what to do the next time you're in bed with him. good luck.
2006-08-09 22:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by lyfonej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say openly not rudely... seduce him to satisfy u ..tell him the parts u enjoy more ...do things frm ur side also
2006-08-09 22:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by harry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-08-09 22:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him what turns you on. he should have asked by now. but tell him what you like without judgement.
2006-08-09 22:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by getit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋