I have a wonderful guyfriend who likes me alot. I think I like him too, but I'm not ready for a relationship because I never had a bf before. We sweet talk alot, and the reason why I sweet talk to him is because I want him to be happy. I wouldn't mind being his gf in the future, but I feel like he needs a gf now. Should I keep on messing with him or should I move on?
2006-08-09 22:35:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are not ready then don't do it. He will find a girlfriend. and by the way, doing it just because you are afraid he will find someone else just makes you selfish as hell. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. Either you do or you don't.
2006-08-16 13:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!
This is a no no, might make you feel good because you are supposedly helping someone but what you're doing is also quite selfish. As you are using this person to feel better about yourself. Sorry but every story has two sides, and this is the one that you are failing to recognize.
Also if you feel like that (that is, pitying him) it also gives you a safe distance from him, which makes the whole "relationship" situation much safer. BUT also less satisfying.
So, drop it and hook up with someone that makes you feel REALLY nice!
2006-08-10 05:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Murg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, dear. Widen your social circle. Only commit to the relationship when u r ready.
2006-08-10 05:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Asia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with him. Its definitely not fair for either you or him. Don't waste you time. The best thing is to be completely honest with him, if you are honest with him, you will be honest with yourself. Spend time with a guy who you truly care about.
2006-08-10 05:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date him just because you feel sorry for him. It will only hurt him more in the future.
2006-08-10 05:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
f ur already 16 or more, and f u think he is right person for you, you should go ahead...
2006-08-10 05:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by alexmr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋