2006-08-09 22:23:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it wud depend upon a lot of things. how ur gal treats u in general...if u see she s fascinated by other guys or men then u wud never ever get emotionally connected during sex........to get emotionally connected u must go for love makin and not sex.....where u re assure that u re the dream of your gal and she ll do anything for u.......
2006-08-09 22:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by topgun 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Connecting emotionally before sex
2006-08-09 22:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Milk Maid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says we do? Sex is not an emotional connection, it is a physical one. The emotional connection comes over time. Love is about connections, some are easy to make other take much monger. Women make the emotional connection much faster than men. Men focus of those connections which can be made quickly. Sex being a strong connection for women is the target for men. When that connection is made, men get the upper hand. We can use the control of that connection to manipulate others.
reality sucks, I know. But the truth is the truth
2006-08-09 22:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not connected emotionally before you have sex, good luck getting a connection during.
Kissing is good, it's not a give or receive thing, it's enjoyable by both, and if I'm close to a girl to begin with, I find kissing to be much more intimate than sex. Not neccessarily more enjoyable, but definately more intimate, so I'd be more likely to kiss a girl I'm attached too during sex as opposed to a one night stand.
2006-08-09 22:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
John H is right. Sex will not make a man connect emotionally unless you already have that connection outside the bedroom. Otherwise, it's just screwing.
2006-08-09 22:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by misskaydee77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say love or at least caring about the girl he is with. Nothing can make him connect emotionally if he is in it just for the sex and he doesn't care about her.
2006-08-09 22:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Erin M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly he should be in love with u before hand. But look him straight in the eyes whiles, u making love and touch him lightly afterward(dont cling) to reestablish the connection. that will get him emotionally involved at least.
2006-08-09 22:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you're asking exactly.
I mean for someone to have sex with you more than a few times, it means he is either uncurably desperate or that he is "connecting emotionally". So just that is enough.
Just chiiiill and let things happen..... :-) !
2006-08-09 22:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Murg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Sex is definitely a physical connection.
2006-08-09 22:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun think they connect while having sex....
but i do think they connect with house emotionally when they look at you deeply and hug you tightly
2006-08-09 22:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by cheeryviola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋