I expressed my feelings 4 her n she rejected my proposal 2 b my girlfriend.I can't forget her.I didn't contact her for few days already.She said she just want to be my friend.Actually,she's quite shocked when i expressed my feelings 2 her.Should i b persistent?What should i do next?
2006-08-09 22:22:09 · 19 answers · asked by chs18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I expressed my feelings 4 her n she rejected my proposal 2 b my girlfriend.We have been friends for around 3 years.She's been my 2 friends ex-gf.I can't forget her.I didn't contact her for few days already.She said she just want to be my friend.Actually,she's quite shocked when i expressed my feelings 2 her.Should i b persistent?What should i do next?
2006-08-09 22:36:25 · update #1
Just give her a little time - a few days - to think about everything. Don't pressure her or be persistent right now.
In the meantime, think about this relationship. She was shocked about your feelings so could you have possibly told her too soon or she just isn't ready for a relationship now.
Of course, HOW you told her may have played a part in this. I just don't know all the details here so I'm guessing a lot.
Do yourself a favor and take time to relfect and consider what you are going to do if she still is not interested in a few days. I would meet her just for something casual. Then ask her again whether or not she's had time to think about what you said.
If she still isn't interested - ask her why. Is it something with you or something with her?? Maybe she's just playing you and made you think there was something when there really wasn't.
Learn as much as you can to take with you into the next time a potential relationship happens.
Take it from there - there might still be hope but don't get too hung up on her, either. You have to protect your heart. If she doesn't want a relationship then you need to respect that and either stay friends or break things off and find someone who actually appreciates you.
So give her some time - do some thinking - then play it cool and calm. See what happens from there. Good luck. :)
2006-08-09 22:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone and assume that it never happened. You must respect her feelings. She is just not into you and persisting will spoil even the casual friendship that you have.
2006-08-09 22:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by fareen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on and find someone else. if she only said she wants to be friends. then that means she isn't interested in you. when guys keep going after girls after the say no. it doesn't win them over. it just makes them want to file a restraining order. no offense or anything.
2006-08-09 22:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she rejected you. get the hint. she is not interested. she only wants to be your friend. be persist ant and you won't have her for a friend. friends should never date each other. because when the relationship goes bad, there goes the friendship. i am living proof of it. I lost my best friend because of a drunken one night stand.
2006-08-09 22:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you an answer, dear. If it's too difficult for you, then you might consider cooling off.
2006-08-09 22:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her u can do everything... but some says that "u cannot please everybody..." the next thing to do is to be her friend...good relationships started with friendship.. friends can be lovers as well..
2006-08-09 22:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by selle_ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it for now. dont try to contact her again for sometime. maybe things might change later.
2006-08-09 22:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare she reject you?
Spike her drink and do what needs to be done now.
2006-08-09 22:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient! maybe shes just confused or think it twice, or shes not so sure of her feelings yet.
2006-08-09 22:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by bubblegirl07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋