i want to know if being gay is anything wrong
2006-08-09 22:00:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you can't help who you love or who you're attracted to. nobody really cares that i'm not homosexual so i can't see a reason for me to be bothered if someone else is.
2006-08-09 22:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by jbslass 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I subscribe to the traditional Judeo-Christian ethic that homosexuality is wrong. It's something I've thought about, and it is a bias I can't shake. Do what you will with that fact.
That said, there is something that I really feel needs to be said. If you are queer, don't listen to those that would invoke the name of God to condemn you and claim you're on the fast track to hell. Those people just want to hurt you and are spewing hatred and are quite mistakenly thinking it's God's will. I can unequivocably say there is nothing that is farther from the truth. There are a lot of things in life that God intended for his children and some of them are things like the exercise of your free will, the ability to respect yourself and feel proud of your accomplishments, to develop your talents, and to enjoy the company of other people. Those people whom are so intent on condemning you often would see you denied such things. Remember this is nothing but evil and the best way to deal with it, is to recognize it as such, and deny it a place in your heart and mind.
Maybe this made a difference. Maybe not. I just felt I had to put it out there. If you really are having an identity crisis right now though, I wish you luck. I can't even imagine how tough something like that could be
2006-08-09 23:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Canuck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with being gay.
You cannot help who you fall in love with. Now-these days, I think people can fall in love with anyone. But there are different kinds of love.
Being gay: means that you have deep emotions for someone of the same sex, and for some reason it feels natural to you. Your not turned gay, your born that way. And its something you feel good about and makes you happy.
Love who you want, there is nothing wrong or sinful about it. Its perfectly normal
2006-08-09 22:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by satckaren72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being homosexual.
The stereotype is for people to believe that homosexuals are weird and different and so on, and some of them are, but some heterosexuals are weird and different too.
Alot of gay guys and girls look, act and seem just like anyone else. The only difference is they are attracted to members of the same sex. I have a few gay friends, and not one of them would I have been able to point out in a crowd as "acting" gay. When they told me, it was just sort of like "oh, alright".
People need to get past their preconceptions about homosexuals and realize they are just like everyone else.
2006-08-09 22:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way. Back in the days, it is seen to be very wrong, because of people's beliefs. They thought it was not normal for a person to be in love with the same sex.
But now, it is quite common and I don't think it is wrong if you're gay. Be proud of who you are.
2006-08-09 22:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think its the way we were initially designed to be, but I do believe that gay people are born that way due to their genetic / chemical makeup - I don't find anything wrong with it, it only makes the world a more interesting place!
2006-08-09 22:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with this lifestyleand as long as you love yourself thats all that matters because gay people have the same feelings a straight person does if you cut a straight person and a gay person do they not bleed the same color? my mother raised me that whatever someone chooses as their sexual preference is none of your business but dont put them down for it because they are people and they have the same feelings you do and bleed the same color blood
2006-08-09 22:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its AWESOME to be gay, i am and i love my life, only thing now is to find a really nice boyfriend to share my life with
2006-08-09 22:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by londonpurelife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE BRAINWASHED BECAUSE YOU DONT THINK YOU CAN HAVE A HETRO RELATIONSHIP .BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD BY SOCIETY NOT TO GO AFTER A HEALTHY HETRO RELATIONSHIP IF YOU ARE A LITTLE DIFFERENT .TWO GAY,S CAN NOT PRODUCE CHILDREN HUMMMMMMM.IS THAT BECAUSE ITS NOT NATURAL AND THE WAY WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE /QIUT TRYNG TO FIND SOLUTIONS FOR MORAL DECAY/DO THE RIGHT THING YOU WILL BE SO MUCH HAPPIER
2006-08-09 22:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's biologically wrong! Can you reproduce(have kids) with a partner of the same sex? it's religiously wrong l don't know of amy religion that supports gays. What if everybody in the world were gay humankind would be wiped out literally!!!!!!
2006-08-09 22:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
in my opinion no, there is nothing wrong with it--i am bisexuall myself--its just a curosity to most but most act on it--so its just human--but most downgrade it cause of the way society views things--but i do not think anything is wrong with it
2006-08-09 22:10:37 · answer #11 · answered by blueeyed sexy blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋