is it wrong to have suspicions bout ya man cheatin evry once in a while? somw would say its a trust issue others that it shows you care & how much you are afraid of the possibility wat you think?
2006-08-09 21:43:57 · 13 answers · asked by Shawty713 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's somewhat normal. As long as it's not just extreme jealousy.
2006-08-09 21:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course, no one likes the idea of their partner cheating on them, and I am sure everyone wonders about it occasionally. Even if there is total trust in a relationship, it is still something that you would not want your partner to do, even if you are sure they wont (if that makes any sense!)
The question is not if you worry about it, but how much you worry about it, and what you do with those worries.
If his or her possible infidelity starts to become an issue in your relationship then it becomes a problem. Being accused of something by someone you love is not nice, even if you have no intention of doing it, and continual paranoia and accusations can destroy even the tightest of relationships.
2006-08-09 21:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going on the premise here that you don't have any obvious red flags or other evidence that there is any cheating going on with him??
It's okay - as long as you realize it is probably just your insecurity talking or (like you said) you just really care about him and don't want to lose him. As long as those thoughts don't interfere with your relationship, I don't see an 'occasional' suspicion to be very concerned about.
Because you don't want to be totally blind to love either. I don't know of anyone who is so perfect and trusting that they never have had such occasional thoughts. Just realize them for what they are.
2006-08-09 21:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a sign that you care. It's a sign of how insecure you are around him and don't trust him. Unless he has given you some solid grounds to cheat on you, ease up and find out why you're so insecure. Good luck, dear.
2006-08-09 21:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are questioning your significant other faithfulness it is possible you have trust issues. I think it could be a lot of different reasons. Some people find it "exciting" if they are bored with the relationship.
2006-08-09 21:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by jewels2078 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are sincere in your relations and really took care of him , I don't think any normal human will try or indulge in cheating , so relax & make it a point to be happy and charming all the time .
2006-08-09 21:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love the guy and want things to last yes because obviously you have trust isssues and if you can not trust him you dont belong being with him
2006-08-09 23:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are going to think that at times in the relationship, and I feel its normal!!!
2006-08-09 21:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
25% of married males cheat on their wives (anyway this amount said that they do, so it might be more), so the risk that boyfriend cheats on girl is even more, the only way to stop worring is start dating somone else:)
2006-08-09 21:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is defensive when not necessary and secretive it is only natural i ahve a very quiet husband who hates to share and i suspect only when he is overly defensive however it isnt a woman i worry about usually it is money issues
2006-08-09 21:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by ihave2knownow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋