How do I overcome my fear of rejection? Please no rude or stupid comments because your immature and not helping me and I would really like help.
2006-08-09 20:53:02 · 10 answers · asked by Kimmyta Brown (My altar ego) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only way to get over it is to go for it and just be confident. If it hapens, it happens, most everyone has been rejected at one point or another.
2006-08-09 20:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, that is a very broad question. You can't put your mind to it and say, yes, I will get over it. It just doesn't work. I tried. But the only way to overcome rejection is to accept it. It may hurt for a minute, but let the thought of it process and register in your mind. If you can accept the fact that someone is rejecting you, it will not be too much of a fear and you won't feel sorry.
2006-08-10 06:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Gentleman in Disguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure anyone really overcomes fear of rejection. It's a risk. Plain and simple. So, if or when you tell hm you like him, go into it confident, and know that you are okay whatever he says. If he gets with you, great! If not, then there's someone else out there perfect for you! Good luck!
2006-08-09 20:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Monique Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be worried about rejection before anything is tasted. Do you remeber you tasing some funny food as a child? Sometimes you liked that sometimes you spat it out. Did it stop you from tasting new things?Similarly look at angles and get convinced yourself that the thing matches your needs, likes and dislikes. Once you are convinced, go ahead with all your heart.You first reject a lot of others and select only the best according to you and go ahead!!! All the best!!!
2006-08-09 21:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon im 67 and iv'e never got over rejection. i was self employed for most of my life. self confadunce is the key they told me.i had to thin a skin and i didn't belive in my self enough. but you can't please every one. when someone say's no just say thanks anyway and go on with the next one. always look ahead don't look back .how do you think those jerks feel when they call on the phone and you say no no. i couldn't do that job. i would feel like someone slapped me . but they just go on to the next one . now rejection from kids thats differant. just remember this there are only two types of people in this world leaders and followers. always be a leader never follow people. just go your own way and lead. people will follow you after a time. I hope this helps you. you i'm dalecollins64@yahoo.com if you need help. by for now dale
2006-08-09 21:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read , memorise and use lots of jokes when ever you open your mouth , people will love to be around you , maintain good health by eating regular proper meal , practice to wear attractive clothes, suits to your body , always fresh smell from your body .People will love to accept you .
2006-08-09 21:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do expect me to answer when u already limiting my thinking by saying "no rude or stupid comments"do u have specific answers u wanna hear
2006-08-09 20:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say, just do it. You can never be sure of what will happen. If you really want something go for it. It's sounds crazy, maybe daring. But you'll never know, until you try! :)
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-09 20:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident about yourself and don't think about rejection
2006-08-09 21:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept them, rejection is part of life. rejection is not scary, de most scary part is whether u can accept it
2006-08-09 20:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋