I'm actually kinda ssad...I was dating this guy who wasn’t that attractive to me except for his personality. With in the first week he took me to meet his family and friends and they all liked me and told him he should “keep” me (it turns out he’s not too picky and goes through females >:~I ) After a month of not fighting one time, going out like every other night, and him meeting my kids he started acting distant. So a couple of days later I asked him if he had something to say and he said no, so I gave him my opinion and he denied it and after a little more of his stuttering bullsh!t, I said let me make it easy on you, and hung up. Do you think it was the right thing to do or should I call him and see what his reaction is?
2006-08-09 20:31:53 · 12 answers · asked by crazygreeniis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's over between us otherwise.
2006-08-09 20:37:16 · update #1
Look he sounds like he was giving the decision to you, he is a coward, because if he really wanted to be with you, he would of talked to you about his feeling. You are going to be sad and such but I think that you should hold your ground, see if he calls you back and if he doesn't then you have your answer. But that is easy for me to say. You do what you FEEL is right for you. YOU are the one that has to deal with him but remember it is not ONLY you, you have kids ask yourself "do you want that kind of person around your babies.
2006-08-09 20:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time to cool down and some time for him to think. He doesn't sound like he would call you back if he thinks you don't want to hear him out. But don't call him back either, after having hung up on him . Don't, even if you want to, because it will make you look like you don't know what you want.
Instead, be prepared to be more calm when HE CALLS YOU BACK.
He denied it probably because what you're thinking is not true. Don't give him a hard time and cut him off. You want to hear him out, then be patient and really listen. If you pay attention, you will feel if he is lying or not.
And if he isn't lying, you have to be nicer to him if you want him around. Sounds like you are a little mean to him. Probably looks-wise you are much better looking. But looks aren't everything. You saw more in him than looks. I hope he sees more in you.
2006-08-10 03:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by denh 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok...here is the deal. The guy just wanted to get you in the sack. He tried the old routine of taking you to his parents to soften you up and make him look sincere. When you didn't "produce" after a month and got your kids involved he got bored. It is too much work for him; he is looking for the easy lay and he didn't get it, so he is distant hoping you will give in to his plan. Do not waste your time with this guy. This is just a physical deal to him; a conquest if you will. Drop him and look for someone who will be there for your needs as well as your kids. If he is that guy he will be there for you and never be distant.
2006-08-10 04:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres actually all kind of reasons y he started acting distant, one can be bcuz of ur kids, but as for the calling him back, yes u shld bcuz like me and my girlfriend were both very stubborn, so when ever we get into a fight, it takes a while for either of us to call each other back. he may be stubborn, but if not u still wana find out the wat happen even if u dont like him anymore, theres gona be apart of u that wants to knw, so u be the man (not the man literaliy) and call his scary *** back and find out, y hes acting like a pussy, and get it out the way
2006-08-10 03:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by SERIOUSLY THOUGH 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He might have some problem..
the best advice which i give u is to relax for sometime and co operate with him...
Dun worry hun..
i'm available for a chat if u want.
Good day
2006-08-10 03:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nirmal 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like the same thing I would have done.
2006-08-10 03:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Scottie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should give him some time, then slowly get to that point again and ask.
2006-08-10 03:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems like he isn't sure about you! if he doesn't have anything to talk, then even though, you call him, he still has nothing to talk anyway, so don't call him. get away from him, don't hurt yourself by calling him!
2006-08-10 03:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by vantha_nou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just let him go if you don't feel you would like to deal with all the time.
2006-08-10 03:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by wildfire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't call him,if he doesn't want to share how his feeling with u.let him be,he will come back soon, if u co him,u will appear unstable,a gal who doesnt know what she wants.
2006-08-10 03:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by lady x 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋