before the three weeks, were close to the point of holding hands. but suddenly decided to be just friends. suddenly, after all the avoiding, starts to be ok and even give hugs. is there any meaning, or is this called 'reading too much into nothing'?
2006-08-09 20:27:44 · 13 answers · asked by unshatteredstone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
before the three weeks, were close to the point of holding hands. but suddenly decided to be just friends. suddenly, after all the avoiding, starts to be ok and even give hugs. is there any meaning, or is this called 'reading too much into nothing'?
im 17, he's 19.
2006-08-09 20:55:47 · update #1
well I guess he simple wants to be just a friend and its possible too that he doesn't want to get too emotionally close to u due to what has happened to him in the past. I used to be like that, I used to find it difficult to give my heart to a lady becos of past hurt though I eventually gave my heart to somebody now its broken again. so right now I prefer just to be friends to being committed.
2006-08-09 20:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by jus wanna know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means his sternum touched your little girls lol
by the sound of your question and how you spell (misspell?) it sounds like you are young.
At your age a hug could be a BIG thing for a guy to give...oooh tommy gave megan a hug...bleh
but when you are my age ( 25 ) and you have been steadily dating 2 different girls at two different times for over 8 years you learn that most of the little stuff like hugs are just a guys way of being immature in his case
Bottom line: if a guy wants a woman he will stop at NOTHING to have her ok? I have counseled married couples in my church for years and what I can tell you about any man (christian or not, young or old) is that the will of a mans heart is to have what he desires internally to be his....Men pursue...women like being pursed most of the time.....
Bottom line is if hes hugging you its because he finds it entertaining personally to himself to give you MIXED MESSAGES that he doesnt like you but he also might. This is quite immature actually because I imagine he KNOWS that you like him. If he didnt want you to like him at all he would NOT hug you.....case in point if you were hideously barfy ugly to him like the most uncool girl in school, he wouldnt spend time with you. it sounds like he likes you back and wants to flirt by giving you different singnals..
Tell your guy friend to say what he means and mean what he says. If he likes you then show it, if he doesnt then dont play games
Later and im out
Titansniper
2006-08-09 20:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see what you did there..
2016-03-27 06:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are reading too much into nothing
2006-08-11 03:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by juicer_jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'reading too much...' but there might be something there. why don't you ask him? unless you start verbalizing your feelings, you'll never know. talking is the only way to understand it.
2006-08-09 20:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by maiax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably something going on in his life that's troubling him... Try to talk to him when you get the chance.
2006-08-09 20:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading too much into nothing
2006-08-09 20:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by hittheswitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes jst being friendly towards u...
but u can always show how u feel abt him ...which someday he will understnd and react the way he feels for u
2006-08-09 20:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw he just wants to be friends foreal dats what i did cuz i didnt want dis girl to like me anymore
2006-08-09 20:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by whatsmynamel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just being careful and doesnt want to get hurt again
2006-08-09 20:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by queen of tas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋