A long story (which I won't mention) but how would you go about this? Opinions pls..
2006-08-09 19:43:46 · 7 answers · asked by sweetzmk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after you cut someone off normally they are a bit sad and will hate you for it but can be fixed by appolagising since in most cases you would cut someone off because you think you are right and they don't want to have anything to do with you because of your selfishness,it all deppends on the reason why you cut them off,if you have a cell phone I recomend txting them 1st,or it could also mean you have destroyed a friendship and there is nothing you can do about it so you would then have to move on and think about it next time before you make such a decision.I have been cut off before and I won't even talk to them now because they should have been a mate from the start and mates don't do that to each other,so good luck
2006-08-09 20:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by s_d_wadham 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do they have instant messaging online? My daughter had a similar situation with a former best friend. They'd been cut off for a couple months. Last night she just IM'd "hey" and the answer was "what's up" and they continued for a few minutes casually before one said "I've really missed our friendship" and the other agreed. They never really got into what went wrong and hashing out the problem or dishing out the blame. They just decided to move past it, and it was surpisingly easy for them. I know my daughter is really relieved because school is about to start and she didn't want the awkwardness of not speaking to this person in the halls, class and social functions.
2006-08-09 19:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if cut them off, is it something you really want to go back to? If it is, then I would definetly start saying sorry, and telling them why you were in the wrong for it. And then asking them for forgiveness, and if you can restart all over. It's alot of groveling, but thats the price you pay when you want someone back who you cut off. Good Luck :o)
2006-08-09 19:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting them to meet you in a neutral place, somewhere you both have not meet there before. like a restaurant or a park. tell them you want to apologize and explain if you feel the need as to why you cut them off. that is all you can do and then wait for them to either accept you back into their life or say no to you. good luck.
2006-08-09 19:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by hazel eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you mean like you cut them out of your life---if thats the case just call them up and start talking! if you miss them tell them that or if you want to apologize to them do that! you just have to start to talk and just be blunt and honest about whats on your mind and why you are calling--but if that doesnt work right away give them space if they are bit mad and by this I mean tell them how you feel and then say you will give them a week to think about it and call them back in a week
2006-08-09 19:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologize?
2006-08-09 19:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cut them off it was for a reason.
2006-08-09 19:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋