I live in her house due to some family problems where I used to live, we have seperate bedrooms and we have no sex.
2006-08-09 19:39:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of coarse its ok man...you both are adults...well she is soon to be. Age really should never be a reason anyone should break up. I am 22 and my gf is 19...and we are totally in love and thats all that matters. I think the only time its wrong is lets say your 20 and she's like 15.
Even more reason its ok...her parents I am assuming are very much supportive of your relationship. Not to mention you two are not having sex...so its innocent yet. I say don't worry bout the age thing and continue to enjoy your relationship...your taking the right path and taking things slow...thats a great foundation for a relationship...so no worries...cherish her...treat her like the princess i'm sure you do.
2006-08-09 19:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The age difference seems like no big deal. If she has dated boys before, then it should be fine. If she has not dated anyone but you, and is pretty naive, expect some problems down the road. She might grow up a bit more and realize that she hasn't experienced life like she wanted to and it might create some issues in your relationship later on. Otherwise, good for you!
2006-08-09 19:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems perfectly fine. My boyfriend will be 20 when I turn 16 in march. Four years is fine. For you is just a little more than 2. It's fine.
2006-08-09 19:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds okay so far. Stick to the guidelines you've been using and you'll keep it from getting too messy. When she's 18 and you guys presumably will begin to have sex, seek other living arrangements to keep things from getting complicated with her family (who it sounds as if have been extremely good to you).They deserve a lot of respect.
2006-08-09 19:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big deal, I'm 18 soon to be 19, my boyfriend is 22 soon to be 23. Age is just a number. Once you hit 17 or 18 dating guys who are a little older isn't such a big deal.
2006-08-09 20:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is fine. In some states sex would be fine cause there isn't over a 3 year age difference.
2006-08-09 19:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be extremely careful with this situation. Not only is she a minor in the eyes of the law, but you absolutely do not want to betray her parents. After all because of their kindness you are living in their home.
Be a real man! Show restraint and dignity and do not violate her or her home.
2006-08-09 19:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living together is ok but let everything be in contorl because it is your girlfriend only. Your prime responsibility is to complete your studies and get a good job.
Why you have mentioned the last sentence. It will be considered after you decide to get marry.
2006-08-09 19:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems pretty okay to me, although I'd check the laws in your state. But thats less than 3 years difference, nothing really wrong with that.
2006-08-09 19:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by drumlove56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds extremely good. just try to be serious for each other and if everything okay get married as soon as possible, then go for sex. just beleive in yourself and value your partner fully. never ever bring any negative thoughts between you two, or think of another girl that would just spoil you. good luck.
2006-08-09 19:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋