Can a relationship be serious when you're 16-17 years old? I mean, is it possible for them to take it seriously and not cheat? Do you think most boys at that age would cheat? Even if they love that girl? and Vica Versa. I want your opinions.
2006-08-09 19:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by Staticx 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh boy, 16-17, your cute, charming, and have a girlfriend. What to do? I think most boys that age get bored easily. They dont like to be held down or told what to do. It is 100% possible for them to take it seriously though. If they love the girl they wont cheat, if they don't then they will.
2006-08-09 19:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definetely possible to have a serious love relationship as long as both partners are open to it. Most boys may cheat but they're not looking for a serious relationship; the boys who cheat do not love that girl. There are boys who do not cheat on their girlfriends at that age...believe it or not... if you want a serious relationship you should develop your relationship first before the sexual contact. friends make the best partners because they've already developed a good relationship and already accept each other and their personalities. A true friend would not cheat and would not carelessly hurt his or her boy/girl friend whereas someone who was not a friend is more likely to simply not care for their partner beyond the physical aspect.
2006-08-09 19:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its very possible to be in love at a young age. I met my now husband when I was 14, started dating him at 15 and we've been together ever since. I was in love with him then and I am now. I'm now 28 and we've been married for 7 years and have two little boys. Now at the time that we were dating, I'll admit, I found myself flirting with other guys at times, when I didn't get to see him as much as I wanted to. And I know that he had comptemplated ditching me for at least two girls at back then. It's hard but you can make it work and chances are if he's really into you, he's not going to stray. Just don't be too clingy, guys at that age hate that! If he feels like he's got a leech hanging onto him every time he sees you, he'll get scared and start looking elsewhere. There's alot of tempation out there when you're that age, at any age really. Just trust him but keep your eyes open and don't be blinded by love. Good Luck!
2006-08-09 19:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that all depends on the person. I think if the boy and girl want to learn more and find out what else is out there, they will tend to wander away. But if the two people are very commited and want the relationship and trust eachother, then I think a serious relationship isnt hard to attain at all. Good Luck :o)
2006-08-09 19:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the fellow some would have informal sex and now choose something distinct etc. i in my opinion did no longer have informal sex because I continuously needed the actual deal. In my e book i replaced into no longer dropping my adolescents (some human beings would say I must have had relaxing). yet i did not finally end up with a baby out of wedlock so i am going to't be that tousled or stay any such negative existence.
2016-11-23 18:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by rolfes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”
--Sounds serious doesn't it? Age doesn't matter. Emotional maturity does for both the boy and girl. As for cheating well relationships are always a risk? But, if someone feels as described above where would there be room for cheating? -
2006-08-09 19:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by JReb_67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be alone in this but I do believe it's POSSIBLE (not probable) for 16 & 17 year olds to be in true love and not cheat. My inlaws who have been married 50 years began dating in high school and have been together (and with no one else) ever since. They are very much in love.
2006-08-09 19:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not boy/girls's fault. its fault of the nature.time goes by people get changed. and specially at that young age, its not possible to learn the true meaning of life and relationships. though it seems that both of you are v ery very serious at present , because thats the world for you guys but when you grow up and learn more your perception about life and relationship might change. it would be safe to maintain just friendly relationship at present just dont jumpt into deep.be natural and think rationally. good luck.
2006-08-09 19:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seldom it can..it depends upon the person involved if u will take it seriously or not..as they say age doesnt matter I mean a boy or a guy would never cheat on you if they really love you.
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2006-08-09 19:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so im only 14 and i REALLY luv my bf and i would neva cheat on him and he would neva cheat on me either and we been 2gether since i was 9
2006-08-09 19:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋