i found out that my baby will be here in about a week. having c section. what can i do with my kids to spend time with them as when baby is born they will get less attention. also we have no money right now any ideas on what to do to give baby what he needs? cant get wic till next month. i wasnt expecting him till next month.
2006-08-09 18:55:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
take them on a picnic in the park and pack their favorite foods, tell them that although the baby is going to take up a lot of your time you will still love them just as much, and when the baby is born try to set up at least one seperate night to see a movie or do something with each one of your kids seperately, some one on one time, say you have 2 other kids not including the baby, set 2 nights and take one out the one and one out the other, it doesn't have to be expensive, go to even a fast food chain, the kids wil appreciate your undiverted attention. I'm the 3rd of 4 children and my mom would try to set up one on one time with us and it was greatly appreciated.
2006-08-09 19:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sara G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first up all the best for next week how exciting is that. Now what to do for the other kids so you can spend time with them take them to the park. even for a little while parks are free. a family BBQ eating outside if its nice and warm. or do both have a BBQ at the park the kids can play and get to eat out side as well. Just take what you already have. play games do you have board games ? I am not sure how old your other children are so its very hard to suggest things. If you don't or cant leave the house the weather is not good draw colour in play in the back yard with the kids I don't mean for you to over do it or anything. But your right spending time with your kids now is very important. All the best for next week
2006-08-09 19:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
melinda w has great advice about WIC - that should be your first step BEFORE the baby is born - call or stop by the WIC office - they will be very helpful..they may even be able to help you find other helpful resources in your area that may be able to provide other necessities... we have a chapter in our area that if you agree to attend parenting classes they reimburse your time w/ carseats, clothing, diapers, etc....
take the new baby's naptime as an opportunity to spend quality time with the other children - when the baby is awake dont hesitate to take the children up on their offer to help - fetching a diaper, the powder, there are so many ways to spend quality time with your children that do not cost a penny..
picnics in the living room, under a tent made of blankets and chairs, scavenger hunts, you are only limited by your imagination and your childrens... :-)
2006-08-13 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by al_nonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should try activties like outdoor games,coloring art project.or have them do something special for the baby.and on the milk issue even if you told wic tell them the issue of haing c-section and what day the baby will be here.if the baby is expected on a weekday you should be able to pick formula up from them when released.if on weekend or after hrs.,just tell hosptiol that you won't be able to get milk right away so they can give you extra formula when released.they provide some.(in gift pack)after you pay the hosptiol and if it medicaid their still getting paid. you should conider breast feding.it's not so bad.wish you the best for you delivery and extended family.congrats..
2006-08-13 09:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by little momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can color and draw together, bake cookies, read books, play games, and while you are doing this with them, talk about the baby coming soon and explain that love doesn't get divided, it gets bigger. Tell them how much they are loved.
When the baby comes, include them in the care for the baby. Let them help pick out clothes, help you give the baby a bath by holding the baby wash. If they love to sing, have them sing to the baby. My son loves when my daughter sings to him. Now they sing together.
It's always good to have 1 on 1 time. It will help you and your kids stay connected and it will mean a lot to them as they grow. Not to mention how much it will mean to you. Precious time!
Good Luck to you and Congratulations!
2006-08-09 19:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bug's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do with the other children is let them participate with the new baby.....like getting diapers, selecting the baby's outfit for the day, help getting things for the baby for bath times. They can help burp the baby with your assistance.....its many things you can do to get your other kids involved with the new baby and they not feel neglected.
Also for your WIC problem, you should breast feed your baby anyway......at least try for a month then if you don't like it, change to the formula.
hope this helps....God Bless you and your family
2006-08-09 19:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by cclark_herron@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first go to wic and explain the situation, they are usually very accommodating with these kind of things. as for the other kids just spend as much time with them as you can, go to the park, play games, sing songs, do art projects, if your not done with the baby's room have them help(this will make them feel like they are contributing).
good luck
2006-08-09 19:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by melinda w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them for walks(health permitting), have a story-time each day or have them make little pictures or banners welcoming the new little bundle. Just spend quality time with them it will be rewarding for you and the kids.
2006-08-09 19:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by goldeneyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to spend money. you can spend with your baby by walking to the park, seeing many people who playing aroud
2006-08-09 19:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them 2 the park for like an hr.
2006-08-09 19:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋