2006-08-09 18:24:34 · 27 answers · asked by mendezlugarcia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, you have to find it in you to leave him for real. Advice can help but in the end it all boils down to you making that decision. There's no one way to leave someone but to do just that and never look back. Be strong and think of all the BAD things in your relationship and it shouldn't be hard for you to never look back. Good Luck
2006-08-09 18:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat on him! Just kidding, thats not an option. You should find a new hobby and have a change... to stop being with someone is a big change in your life and you need a change in your physical appearance and in your interests as well. Make some new friends and start fresh, redo your hair and have fun absorbing the world. You'll be happier and won't feel like you 'need' to go back to him anymore.
2006-08-09 18:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by therightangle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling.........but in the long run you hotta do what you gotta do and be strong and firm about it.
Think about what he does to get you back and then you avoid those situations. You say NO and then you aske him what part of NO doesn't he understand.
Write down the reasons to NOT be with him and then be the powerful strong woman that you are and do NOT go back to him. He has some sort of control over you and it isn't good for someone to have control over you making you do things that you don't want to do.
You be in charge, YOU call the shots.
You are hanging on to the guy you thought he could be, but he never was. You are waiting for him for him to be what you need and he never will be. So.you are not going back to HIM, you are going back to who you thought he was or who you wanted him to be.
Hang in there for a guy who is what you need and want.
2006-08-09 19:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start readiing books about relationships. Read Marianne Williamson's "A Woman's Worth" and "A Return to Love".
Read Co-dependent no more and Beyond Codependance
(Beattie). Read "Why does he do that?" and "He's just not that
into you." Read "Emotional Vampires." By the time you get
through with that list, you won't remember his name and you'll
have a better idea of what you want in a man.
Good luck. Been there.
2006-08-09 18:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to do get rid of everything that reminds you of him and try to focus on someone else. It is hard but you must do this in order to start the getting over process. If you focus on someone else or something you won't have so much spare time to think of him. If this fails write a list of everything about him that sucks and in your free time when you think of him read your list and by the end of the week you will be so sick of him and it will be easier to let.
2006-08-09 18:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to keep reminding yourself of the reasons why you are leaving him. Get involve in other activities. You will gradually forget about him. Don't hang around with him anymore. It would at least help you to resist getting back with him.
2006-08-09 18:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tsu-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and every time you find yourself trying to go back, stop and think about why you left in the first place. Then stop and think harder about why you are trying to go back all the time! Good luck
~God bless
2006-08-09 18:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Girl 4 God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work out why you want to split from him, and why you keep going back to him... if you really want to split, then keep your distance, don't talk to him or see him or n e thing like that for a week or so, just to let your feelings about the break up calm down a bit... then see what you think/feel and take it from there
2006-08-09 18:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just left my boyfriend and it felt good if you don't want to be with him set him down and talk to him and let him know how you rely feel about him.
If you don't like the way he treats you tell him and you have to be a stronger person not to go back to him he is not the only one in the world that you an be with there mite be some one out there for you.
You have to way your options. do you want to be with him or do you not want to be with him.
2006-08-09 18:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Juanita M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave and then find someone else and you will stop going back to your ex, remember the reasons that your leaving for!
2006-08-09 18:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋