I have been with my boyfriend about 6 months.
We argue and fight a lot.
On saturday we had a huge argument (we were both hungover) and he cracked it and said he was leaving me, told me the argument was my fault. Of course I broke down, extremely upset, he went for a walk. when he got back, we eventually made up. and he told me he does love me.
He hasnt called me since than, and sent me a txt on wednesday saying he misses and loves me, But I now doubt him, if he was so willing to walk away when we had an argument.
Guys - would you threaten to break up with your girlfriend during an argument if you really loved her?
2006-08-09 18:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy who is really in love will wait on you. He will want to make you happy and never want to make you cry. He wont want to break up with you even if you argue over something (Unless its about you cheating on him). If he loves you he will adore you. Sex wont even matter..... he would wait. He would just want to be with you. I'm in love and I cant stop looking at my baby. Here is a poem I wrote on what a girl deserves!
You Deserve!!
You deserve a special someone to hold your hand and love you day by day, To buy you flowers even when its not a holiday, You deserve a someone that will treat you like the queen you are, someone who will notice you even from afar, You deserve a prince that will rescue you from your troubles, you deserve someone who will nourish you with kisses and cuddles, You are beautiful and deserve only the best, Don't let anyone tell you your anything less!
2006-08-09 19:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by NuTTeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we guys are instinctive, stubbourn creatures. When we get angry, our **** hits the fan, making a mess. He may have done the best thing by walking away, if he stayed it would have gotten worse. He felt bad he made you cry, love or no love, tears are a weakness for all guys. Text don't mean much, let me tell you from experience. Although maybe hes waiting for you to call him...
Here's what you need to consider: He did come back. That counts for something, because he made you cry and told you he was leaving you. He feels something for you. I don't know him though. It could be that he feels obligated to come back after the six months, even if he doesn't love you.
The best way to deal with it is to be with him, face to face, and have the good old heart to heart. Try to remain calm during it, no matter what the outcome.
If you would ask me to give you an answer, I would tell you my gut says he still loves you.
My advice: 6 months can be a long time, and love is never easy. Don't give up. Oh, and a cup of coffee and lotttttts of water for those hangovers.
Good luck.
2006-08-10 01:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we argue and fight with one another we say alot of things we don't mean and he probably needed that walk that's why he walked away because sometimes things get too heated and we just have to walk away and think about things for a while. Don't doubt him because it will just cause other doubts about him and you should just let the water calm and tell him that you want to hook up and go do something other than drink. Do something fun together that is healthy like going to the theme park, or a good funny movie that brings the best out in both of you. Do something positive together besides drink.
2006-08-10 01:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't healthy to argue and fight with your boyfriend all the time. Why don't you find someone who loves you for who you are? There are so many nice guys out there. Anyone who threatens to break up with you because of an argument is not committed to the relationship or to you.
2006-08-10 01:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people are drunk they say a lot of stuff they dont really mean. same goes in an arguement. now he feels bad bout what he said thats why he is apologising profusely.
2006-08-10 01:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance..
maybe he just blew up when you two had a fight.
just talk to him and make up eith him... change if you have to.
2006-08-10 01:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt diserve you i can already tell, take my hand ill show you the world through my eyes,
2006-08-10 01:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if they are really fed up..give him another chance..talk to him..i think that's the best thing to do..so far..
2006-08-10 01:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by kaye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND VERY YOUNG,, THATS GREAT,,
remember this, "GUYS THINK WITH THE LITTLE HEAD"
when they should think with the "
"BIG HEAD" so don't ask guys
ask yourself,,
guys give girls "LOVE" to get sex
girls give guys "SEX" to get love.
2006-08-10 01:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋