Help! Unanswerable guy question??? what do we do?

Question

1. Does a girls best guy frined ever turn into a different sort of realationship, and how do u go about it?
2.We're not "dating" but we've committed to liking eachother. He's kind of a flirt, and goes out to drinking parties once in a great while, and idk what he'll be doing!(if ya know what im sayin)
3. He's my best friend.....what do i do?
4.I have 2 guy friends and I usually like one or the other,, now it depends on who I am hanging out with at the moment but the other one says something like u 2 would be really cute together, or something like that. Why do they say that... is it because they mean it or something completly different?

Answer 1

sometimes it becomes more. my advise is to tell him how you feel.

Answer 2

1. A girls "best guy friend" can and does at times become something else. Go about it cautiously though - because you can lose the friendship if puruing the romance. First, make a decision; what are you willing to lose?

2. He does what he does while he's single and you don't have any say in what he does when he goes out to parties (as a friend) - again, you need to make a decision; are you willing to sacrifice the friendship for this crush. Besides, "committing to liking each other" is the definition of friendship, it doesn't mean your "committed to each other" as lovers.

3. Make a choice; best lovers start off as best friends first (you need the friendship to be true to each other) but who would you turn to (other best friend) if you lost this one romantically? You need to sit with yourself, no one can answer that for you.

4. Friends can usually tell when you crush on another friend. This friend probably sees that the two of you may like each other more than friends. If you "like one or the other" this probably isn't really "just a friendship" you're probably crushing on both of them but willing to be satisfied with being just friends. I'd find a boyfriend out of that circle of friends and keep the drama to a minimum.

Answer 3

i'll go down 1 by 1
1) if he is ur best guy friend then there is a possibility that it might go deeper
2)is this a question?
3)if u r interested in him then start flirting with him also to find out if he is interested in u as well...then when u r ready pop the question
4)when one guy says that u and the other guy look cute together, it usually means he is trying to use reverse psychology to woo u or (seldom)he has no interest in anything more than mutual friendship with u and is actually complimenting the other guy and u being nice together

Answer 4

1. Yes, it happens all the time. And they make great boyfriends 'cause they already know all about you.
2. He'll do whatever you let him do. You have control here, not him.
3. You jump up and down with happiness when he kisses you.
4. This is tricky. He could mean what he says but he could mean that he is as jealous as hell. Only you can know this.
PS: Don't choose the wrong one.

Answer 5

first of all how old are you. and besides your friends if you are concerned about it , and you like the other guy also you are not ready to be with anyone in a relationship. if it happens it happens. guys are just weird that way , and if your such good friends then flat out ask him why he says things like that , but remember you get what you ask for . Honesty in friendship is the #1 way to be and true friends will tell you the truth.

Answer 6

They both want to have sex with you. There is no such thing as a purely platonic guy/girl friendship with a good looking girl. No mater how the girl feels about the guy he'll still jump at free sex.

Answer 7

The first one is too immature for a relationship & the second one either loves you & wants you to be happy or he really means you would make a cute couple with the other one.Ask if he really means it!

Answer 8

You are being taken for a ride. Get some new friends.

Answer 9

slow down god stop your over reacting dam! get some penuis and be quite