We both work at a photo lab together, and I like this woman alot...She's known for awhile now that I was going. Now suddenly she is also going to this concert. My question is...does the fact that she is all of a sudden going to this concert mean anything...or just concidence...At first I thought coincidence...but now I'm not so sure...if its part of the game...like...now its my move...??
2006-08-09 18:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by James S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is already heading there with her roommate...or I would ask her to go with me...I'm already tagging along with my brother...he had an extra ticket...and its Lynyrd Skynyrd!! I will definately talk to her while I'm at the concert...to try and see whats going on...but being broke at the moment with school...and other bills doesn't help...
2006-08-09 18:20:21 · update #1
Coincidence.
Make your move anyway, though. And do it at the concert.
2006-08-09 18:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by The B Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can u read minds? Can she read your mind
If you cannot read her mind, ask her if she wants to tail-gate before the concert (this still allows her to be with her sis ... just meet up in the parking lot with a grill and some food). IF she says yes, great have fun ... IF she says no, that's OK too, since you're going to have fun at the concert ... be nonchalant.
Try to avoid these 5 Counterproductive Pick-Up Lines:
1) If you and I were squirrels, I could bust a nut in your hole.
2) How do you like your eggs: fried, scrambled or fertilized?
3) My love for you is like diarrhea; I just can't hold it in.
4) If your right leg was Thanksgiving, and your left leg was Christmas, then could I meet you between the holidays?
5) How about we play lion and lion tamer? You hold your mouth open, and I'll give you the meat.
2006-08-10 01:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unsure about it being a coincidence or not you can casually ask her if she'd like to car pool with you. Then you can safely get clues if she likes you back or not. She may say she's going with her friends or maybe she'll accept the offer and then you can take it from there. Work relationships are a sensitive matter so tread lightly.
Good luck.
Curious? What concert?
2006-08-10 01:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Trailscout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on her. Did a friend ask her to go? Does she really like the band and scrounged up money? Who is she going with? Ask her before she goes. Talk about the concert itself. If she is really into the band then you two have a common ground and you can make your decisions from there. Sure she could be sending you girl code so see if she wants to carpool up there.
2006-08-10 01:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be coincidence or the fact that you seemed happy to go made her want to go or she likes you and took this as opportunity. i would definitely try to see if you can make this work to your advantage. Ask if she wants to go with you? Obviously you enjoy the same music. Sorry, us women can be difficult to figure out, though i think the same way about men in these situations.
i will admit, i have tried new things to get to know guys that i am interested in though its with the guy.
2006-08-10 01:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by alicia c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably part of the game. But kinda sad. Be honest with each other. If you like someone a lot let them know.
2006-08-10 01:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard to say- my first reaction is no it probably doesn't mean anything. however- that doesn't mean you can't make a move anyway. why don't you suggest going to the concert with her- since you're both going anyway.
2006-08-10 01:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by fuzzyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you to find out if its coincidence or not. Bust a move dont be scared.
2006-08-10 01:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Wazzzaaa! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to her.Ask if she is going with anybody.If she is ask her if she doesn't mine you only steepen in and saying hello.
2006-08-10 01:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take off that stupid looking skull cap and you might have a chance!!!
2006-08-10 01:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋