My Boy friend can't understand me. what I do.?

Answer 1

The remedy lies only with you, you have to be more transparent and honest, to enable him to understand better.

Answer 2

Well Manvi.
No one has ever understood Women still now, even the Lord himself.
Well first of all u need to find out whether he really listens carefully to all ur issues patiently or not. If he does that then he is atentive but if he doesnt then he may be interested in not all of ur issues just those that are concerned to him.
Try to find out on what he likes to speak to u when he is around u.
Well u may work out with even ur gestures to make him understand u, by ur eyes, looks, dress materials etc etc.
when ur with him talk to him on his area of interse he will definately try to understand u then.

All the best
Regards
Ravi

Answer 3

Manvi, dear, you have a long wait. Very few men understand women even a tiny bit. With persistence, luck, and prayer, you may find one that, at least, tries. They can be quite entertaining, though, if you learn how to take them, and don't demand what they cannot deliver. I think this is something most women learn along the way. God help us, we love them and sometimes they love us. But understanding? I don't think so.

Answer 4

Trust me ur not alone! U think your bf can't understand u bcos ur expecting too much from him.Evryone is unique & it is useless wasting time understanding each other.Be realistic in your requirements (demands/commands) from this relationship, try to see the positive side of your bf, the reasons u actually fell in love with him.

Answer 5

Love the one who loves you and *NOT* the one whom you love. Than shall you come to know the real happines of love.
Understanding is a major part not just with BF but anyone who is close to you. And if someone dosent understand you, then its time to say goodbye. And if you dont say good bye, then be prepared to get in a worst situation. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Talk it over with him.

Doesn't bold well for the relationship, but men don't understand women by instinct, they need to learn it.
Be open and REAL Honest about your feelings.

Explain to him all the little tricks, like:
-When your are pissed, how can he tell and what you want him to do about it
-What you like to do (in bed, dinner etc)
ect

open yourself to him, if he doesn't get it, then give up. Clueless is one thing, moron is another.

Answer 7

Try Speaking in English.... lol... just kidding....

Well if ur boy friend does not seem to understand ur point of view... step into his shoes and try to see his point of view.

Wish u all the best...

Answer 8

do you guys speak the same language? Do you mumble?
You are probably like the other guys and gals in the world who has trouble making sense of each other. There is that book you miight want to check in to men are from mars women from venus........something like that. Women speak on an emotional level. Men are locigal, they also can't guess things like we assume them to understand. Speak to him like he is clueless.
Explain things to him like he is from another planet and he needs to have things pointed out for him to understand.
Also.......guys don't deal well with women who babble while they are upset or crying. Have your cry, then talk to him.

It will take time, but you will learn to communicate. good luck

Answer 9

Well you certainly can't just force the lil shiyat to understand, but brute force may sway his level of understanding.

Answer 10

1) Change to a quicker processor.
2) Upgrade ram to 512.
3) Defrag ur boyfriend.