Of course there are regrets. A majority of women feel depressed after the abortion, and at the baby's first birthday. Whatever happened to get you pregnant was not the baby's fault. In God's eyes, your child is just as much of a person as you are, and having an abortion would be just the same as shooting a 25 year old man. Don't do it! Many women who choose to have their baby regardless of the circumstance are very glad they did.
2006-08-09 17:39:07
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answered by jsprplc2006 4
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Yes, I had two friends who had an abortion. And whenever we would talk about babies and children, they would tell me that they wished they never did such a thing... because they're always wondering what could have been their baby (boy/girl)?, who would their baby look like?, what could have been his/her first words?,etc.
Honestly having an abortion can have emotional, physical, and mental stress on the girl especially..for guys its not that much since all they care is to have sex and when they get the girl pregnant is to abort it and forget things ever happened! But for the girls' part they have the thought of abortion their whole life and the feeling of what if I never did that? I just find an abortion so bad!!!
2006-08-10 03:18:37
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answered by Anonymous
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I have never had an abortion, but I know a woman who is in her 60's and she still has regrets about having one when she was a young girl. She had two healthy children later in her life, but she says she cannot forget what she'd done.
2006-08-11 00:25:05
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answered by Lilly 2
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There are plenty of people who regret having an abortion. There's always the question of "what if" - what if they'd decided to keep the baby, what if they'd had the child and given it up for adoption, what would the kid have been like?
2006-08-10 00:39:39
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answered by triviatm 6
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Yes, these women regretted their abortions:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Here's more information that might be helpful to you:
Photos of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
2006-08-10 09:31:35
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answered by Anonymous
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There is always emotional scarring, but not really regrets
You grieve for the loss of a child you did not know, but you somehow manage to carry on
However you are a healthy female you live for the day that you can plan a pregnancy, and have a solid support system
2006-08-10 00:38:17
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answered by LJRobbie 5
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I wouldnt know:/ I suppose so. I kept my little chubbles even though I am a single mom, working part time, and going to school. Its hard but everytime he smiles at me, or falls asleep in my arms I know I did the right thing...the best thing.I would do it over even if my situation was a hundred times worse.Because all in all he was the one that gave me life.
2006-08-10 01:25:58
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answered by Elisa 2
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Nope. I've had two abortions, and couldn't care less. I don't regret them at all. I couldn't be more happy with my life right now.
2006-08-10 00:57:59
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answered by Stella 4
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Yes. It feels horrible. Its like a piece of you is dying LITERALLY. Plus she might die because of complications. She might not ever be able to have a baby ever again. And also she might catch this disease where she's on her period ALL the time. It REALLY stinks, and its uncureable.
2006-08-10 00:43:49
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answered by Anonymous
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yes it's the worst thing a woman can ever do it's a hard thing to live with it disgusses me on how some girls use it as a birth control method.it's murder and i'd never ever make that choice a gain.
2006-08-10 03:42:32
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answered by Anonymous
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