I have been talking to this guy online for the past couple weeks. We finally decided to meet. We are both 22 and both virgins (I trust him when he says this). We have an implicit understanding that should dinner go well we'd explore somewhat. We both decided this would be casual. Any suggestions for how to proceed, what to do, how to go about it etc? Thanks.
2006-08-09 17:04:31 · 13 answers · asked by CoconutBall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am almost positive he is a virgin and am meeting him on my turf. Despite being on my turf I am sure I will be nervous and no idea what to do.
2006-08-09 17:11:22 · update #1
You are a fool if you believe that he is a virgin. Why would he tell you that over the internet? No guy would brag about this unless he wants to rape a virgin.
Got it. Watch it, this smells fishy.
2006-08-09 17:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important part of any encounter it's the identification of the person! You are going to meet a perfect stranger, the first thing I do when I'm going to meet somebody is the ID, ask for it and verify it! Meet the first time during the day and in a very public place. All of this may sound paranoid bur these times make necessary to be extremely careful!!!!
2006-08-10 00:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep it simple and be yourself. I wouldn't recommend revealing too much information about yourself, your family, etc. on a first date because you are getting to know him. Ask him to tell you a little about himself? Does he have table manners during dinner? How about when it's time to pay the bill, does he pay for it, or does he ask you to split the bill? (the reveals a little bit about himself). Good luck and best wishes.
2006-08-10 00:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , he is lieing . He is the bigest lier I ever hurd of. He just wants sex. Around him I would super glue my pants on. Then I would go find a nice guy that wanted me for me and not for sex that after wile he will get tired of. When he does he will go find someone else. So keep your pants pulled up , and you will find the right guy.
2006-08-10 00:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going about things the wrong way
havnt you read reports of in ternet abuse
if you not met this guy i advise you to dump him now or your in serious trouble girl
this sounds really suspicious
take care......... tell a couple of your friends what your doing before you go ahead
call them after your date is over
2006-08-10 00:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ĩ Дιит Ќѓцѕ†¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know if yall should meet ...tons of people lie over the net look if something bad happens well just know i warned you .. also have yall even talked on the phone ? i would do that first be for i meet him
2006-08-10 00:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u haven't met this person before except online how do you know if they have any diseases or some kind of wierdo.it your live maybe you should make this a group of friends thing until you get to know them better.Anyway whats the rush??????????????????????
2006-08-10 00:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by spoiled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be romantic! Play some music, and definitely take it slow!
2006-08-10 00:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by dtammyus♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him bust a nut in your mouth. its great or all over the keyboard when cybering.
2006-08-10 00:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by Stiverson. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure hes not some 40 year old perv
2006-08-10 00:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋