he's 18 and im 14, he's really nice & my mom knows his mom...they work together, thats how i met him....my mom says she's not sure its a godo idea...but he's really cute
2006-08-09 17:01:49 · 15 answers · asked by kitkat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NO NO............18 year old boys are very hot to trot (their hormones are raging) and you at 14 need not be dating him.......Your mom is right, it's a TERRIBLE idea and wait until you are older, hun........Take care.............
2006-08-09 17:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well, "but he's really cute..." is a reason to CONSIDER dating him because i believe that you must be attracted to the other person first but let's see - what is he like? Does he treat you well? How is his anger management? Is he polite or do you have anything in common with him?
Here's the thing, if you were 20 and he was 25...it wouldn't be such a big deal but here he is leagal and you're underage miss. He's going to be going to parties and bars and clubs while you sit at home or go to the mall? Is he going to be okay with that?
At 14 you haven't really matured...(trust me i thought i was the most mature person at that age but i wasn't.) There's alot of things you're not exposed to.
And when you say "go out"...at 14 i'm gonna go with it's a legal bonding you're together legit/can't go out with anyone else, must spend time with each other all the time. Where his view might be going out is casually dating or one date you know?
I'd say give it a couple of years but if you won't listen to that, just go on one date with him and see if it works.
2006-08-10 00:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by wreckless_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not trying to answer this question as a father would. but think about it. Why would a man at 18 be looking for a younge girl of 14. Use your head and don't make a mistake. I don't think he's looking for a long haul of a relationship. He's looking for a good time not a long time. THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING STUPID
2006-08-10 00:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, it is illegal and if he gets in trouble he will be labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life, he would not be able to get a job and he would have to make public everywhere he lives. People will judge him and he will have difficulty finding a woman because he s a sex offender. If you want to ruin his life then go for it.
2006-08-10 00:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by Clark K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can accept. it doesn't matter if he's older than u because he may be able to help u a lot. in fact u're old enough to have an older boyfiend, trust me, and that's good. so go out with him and u'll find out many thing interesting about him, i'm sure
2006-08-10 00:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by poohbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not really sure cuz im engaged to some one whos 5 years younger that me and im 21 soo im kinda dealling with the same thing.
2006-08-10 00:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him,go 4 it-but know he'll end up in prison if(sex gets in2 it)usually if things dont work out & u wanna get back @ him,then dat could happen-so be careful & think it through 1st-good luck.
2006-08-10 00:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and hes nice, i say go for it! your still young so you should be having fun! i dont think age is that big of a factor, my boyfriend is 2 years older than me. good luck!
2006-08-10 00:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Me (batteries not included) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my wife was 14 years younger but we were both legal age
if you get together and have sex once he could go to prison and you dont have to press charges.....so you like him or not? if you like him stay away if u dont send him to jail
2006-08-10 00:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by randy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me... i wouldn't but me and you have completly different lives and minds. Do your parents know? If they do ask them see what they have to say.
2006-08-10 00:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Hott_Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋