My boyfriend of 6 years and father baby has cheated on me w/ one of my (ex) friends..........So i left a week but later i took him back thinking he wont do it again (or will he?) anyways its been two month since it happened and i just cant get over it!!! Can someone please help me?! How do i forget want happen and move on........ I Still love him i just dont no way should i stay or walk away? Please give as much info u can i would really respect!
2006-08-09 16:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by N!cky 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I may be young, but my boyfriend did that to me once...I am only 17...but at the beginning of the year my bf cheated on me with a girl that went to our school...I eventually got over it...but he never cheated on me again...he would try to talk to other girls on myspace and he did that like 2 or 3 times...I love him to death, but at the same time I think that no matter what he is going to do it...if that boyfriend of urs really wants to be with u then he will change, if not then he will keep doing what he wants to do...I dont understand why it is so hard for boys/men to see that if someone loves u then dont do that...but if u really love him and if u forgave him then u shouldnt bring it up...no one said that u have to forget about it because u never will....but you probably wont be able to trust him much for a while...I think that u should try to work it out...but only if the both of ya'll want to.
2006-08-09 17:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady , it is OK once a while , need not to take it on your heart so seriously , you must be happy he still love you and want to be with you in the night , for the sake of lonliness wrong deciesion should not come in between , rest is up to you , if you do not make it again you will be the looser in the end , think hundred time before you get angry again , very honest advise to you .
2006-08-10 00:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes men are known for cheating you must love him if you took him back. i know it is hard to get passed it but if you keep holding that over him then your relationship will never move forward. WHen he sleeps with a friend that is one of the ultimAte betrayals but if you want to make it work you gotta take that chance. if you find yourself not being able to get pASSed that then you can ask him to leave . keep your eyes open and mouth shut you will be just fine.
2006-08-10 00:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by shanesha n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can ever regain trust after cheating but its even worse if he cheated with your friend. i couldnt stay personally because i know every tiome we had a fight that would be the first thing that came to mind.
2006-08-09 23:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll do it again. you mean nothing to him. he prolly doesnt even love his kid. Would someone that loved you cheat on you and risk the ones he loves? didn't think so.
2006-08-09 23:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, trying to creat trust where it isn't is hard
2006-08-10 00:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋