Reason for asking....My boyfriend and i went to the spa and we had all are treatments together and when we Finally got to the massage part....... the only masseuse available were male...he refused .......personaly I dont think it matter what do you think?
2006-08-09 16:52:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
if im stressed.. and he is a good masuse. then i probably would.. but one hint of gayness and im out.
2006-08-09 16:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually I might consider going to a male masseuse (I don't think masseuse is the right term) for various reasons having to do with paying a female to touch my body, and possibly being embarrassed or self conscious about my body. Ideally a good massage would come from some guy that looks like me.
But I think the appeal of females is the ouch factor in getting a massage, and females might be more gentle, or nimble?
2006-08-09 16:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by The Bible (gives Hope) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as a "male masseuse." A male person who does massages is a masseur.
I am male and I'm perfectly fine with it. Masseurs are more likely to have the strength level necessary for deep tissue massage and to relax large muscles.
2006-08-10 04:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm sure that there's such a thing as an innocent massage, in this day and age I wouldn't feel comfortable most of the time. I also don't happen to think that it's a good profession to get into today.
2006-08-09 16:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not feel right having a male feel me off either. I would feel gay.. I want to feel relaxed and a mans hands or body touching mine would not relax me at all. The better lookin of a woman the more relaxed I would be and might even enjoy the massage.
2006-08-09 16:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why care??
if that's male, let he do the work la....
y only female know how to massage??
or in his mind is thinking other thing else??
2006-08-09 16:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by lou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I'm a gay man so of course I'd say yes...but you'd better get your genders correct....masseuse is a female massage person...masseur is a male who does it
2006-08-09 18:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would say it doesn't matter...but there is definitely something strange about it. That doesnt mean a massage is a sexual experience, but men are more comfortable having women touch their bodies then other men.
2006-08-09 16:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If im with my girlfriend i wouldnt mind a male masuesse.. it definitley is kinda gay but as long as i have female company its okay.....i would however prefer a female . Tell him to grow up and if u ever go again have fun together.
2006-08-09 16:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by I need Answers 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is just weird...i can't get over the fact that another man is touching me. I realize it is a job, but a mans hands are never as soft as a woman's...maybe it is a mental barrier!!
2006-08-09 16:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by O Jam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt feel comfortable with a man touching me all over. I guess its a Straight guys worst nightmare.
2006-08-09 16:54:49 · answer #11 · answered by matt j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋