I've known a guy bout 2 mths ago. I begin to have feelings 4 him as time goes by. I ever hint 2 him my feelings, but after that I feel that he starts to stay a distant fr. me. All along, we didn't have much conversation accept on msn. I feel that he detest me alot even though I care and concern him very much. Is he a weird guy? Normally nobody will reject someone who care & concern for him without asking anything in return, right? He even hinted to me that not to msn with him anymore. Is he really too much? I really don't know what did I do wrong. Actually all along I feel more pathetic towards him rather than like him. Is it wrong to treat someone good. I normally give my friends more than I take from them. Sometimes I just feel that I m too naive.
2006-08-09 16:50:32 · 6 answers · asked by lady lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And how old are you? Yours sounds like puppy love, the whole nine yards.
And if you are as naive as you say you feel, why ruin it by thinking about marriage? Just live your live, your age, enjoy your friends. Don't go counting how much you give your friends and how much you get in return (phone calls, visits, acts of goodness and other niceties).
Be happy first with yourself, just the way you are in the here and now. Then share who you are with your friends. Friendships are a collaboration and they hold no guarantees of any kind: some friends last, some don't. Take the good with the bad.
Good luck!
2006-08-09 16:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that it relies upon on the couple. I took my husband's call and function on no account regretted it. despite the fact that, we've been youthful as quickly as we've been given married, so it is not as though I had a longtime occupation to evaluate. I additionally had to have toddlers and share their names as nicely, and not in a hyphenated way. i think it extremely is submissive in a trend, we bypass from having our father's call (considering the fact that he "owns") us to our husband's call whilst he buys us from our father. I propose that interior the experience that adult males used to could pay for the main dazzling to marry a undeniable woman. yet despite the fact that, there are some cultures the place the female's family members has to pay the guy for taking duty for her. there are such various families immediately the place the mum and dad are no longer married, or remarriage circumstances that it rather must be what works ultimate for each concern. My sister-in-regulation has 2 toddlers, and all 3 of them have diverse final names. To me, that could desire to be perplexing no longer in elementary terms for the youngsters, yet additionally for college, church, etc. perhaps i'm incorrect, considering the fact that this seems to be like plenty greater subject-unfastened, yet individually i like it whilst a family members all has the comparable call. And for me, taking my husband's call replaced right into a thank you to coach everybody that he and that i at the instant are a family members.
2016-12-11 11:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by hillis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy of yours, like signal you that he reject your feeling for him. Maybe this relationship is going a bit too fast, just months. Slow the pace a little by not to border him too much of your care and concern. See what happen ? Should he look up for you then you carry on, otherwise then you have to drop him. Go for another guy, don't waste your time on him.
2006-08-09 18:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do not open your heart too soon,
don't be needy.
don't be available always
don't talk about love and settling down,
2 or three months is not that long
be happy
cheerful
give the guy a reason to want you'
and if he never acts that excited,, then, face it, you are not lhte one for him,, and move on,
there will be many more loves to take his place and even better ones
good luck
2006-08-09 17:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not naive but maybe too nice for your own good. Think for yourself. It's about time we girls learn to that. (myself included) He may not detest you but he prob does not want to lead u on hence the distancing... but if u constantly push things with him, then yes. it is possibly that u are becoming stalker like to him, and honestly, will u have positive feelings twdds a stalker? gd luck!
2006-08-09 16:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Christy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have a few unresolved issues.
2006-08-09 16:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by raishe alghool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋