sorry ive been up all day worrying about this and i just need more opinions
2006-08-09 16:49:49 · 15 answers · asked by joseph t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
but your so young...the radio thing is cute...but your so young............
2006-08-09 16:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by your question. It sounds as if you are asking your girlfriend to marry you on Friday and you're nervous. Have you two talked about it. I have several rules about marriage:
1) Not until you are at least 25.
2) Not until you've been going out for 2 years.
3) Not until you have ironed out most of the major obstacles.
4) Not until you get proper education and can afford a place of your own.
5) You must love that person enough to want to be with them in sickness/health/richer/poorer. Chances are most of us get sicker and poorer! Can you handle that?
If you fit the above criteria, by all means ask her. If not, on Thursday, ask her where she sees your relationship in one year.
That will tell you everything! I think that 2 people should know eachother so well that it's really just the natural next step. There is no question as to what the answer would be.
Good luck. I hope you ask her and that she says yes.
2006-08-09 16:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you are now up to almost 30 answers between the three times you have asked this question and I read your question when you initially asked it but decided not to answer at that point. Now I feel like I have to answer you.
YOU ARE 16 YEARS OLD! Why do you want to get engaged at such a young age? You have your whole life ahead of you and if you are meant to marry this girl she will still be around 5 years from now when you are better equipped (emotionally, financially and with an education) to handle the day to day of married of life.
A couple of people have suggested you give this ring to her as a promise ring and then when you have the money, buy her the ring you want to buy her. I think that is your best option because 16 is far too young to get married.
2006-08-09 17:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you're rather youthful... in spite of the undeniable fact that the component is, in case you wait till once you graduate and till once you get a pastime and till once you get sufficient funds and wait and wait and wait, you'd be useless. purely because you get engaged immediately would not propose you have become married in a twelve months! Get engaged in case you adore her!! unhappy tale... my associates met and began being associates in grade 2!! isn't that loopy!! They were continually continually close, yet did not commence extremely courting till grade 10. Then, they were given married a million twelve months after highschool. Then, 2 years after highschool that they had twin boys. 10 weeks after their sons were born, he died in a sad twist of destiny. It become terrible and intensely, very unhappy... yet someone suggested how impressive that they had the variety of very good era of time of being close. no human being become wondering about how 'stupid' it become that they were given married so youthful at that aspect. besides, all that aside. Do i imagine it is romantic? certain. Do i imagine it is possibly to run easily... mayyyybe. call the radio station first to be particular that they comprehend in strengthen. each and every time I call to make a request, they don't play it for like an hour!!! do not problem about the hoop, sweetie pie!! She'll like it and if she would not, she's no good for you. continually stay as sweet as you're!!
2016-11-29 19:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by mendelsohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is no harm in asking her on friday but keep one thing in mind if she says no then dont get in tension,ask her what is her problem of saying no,and if she says yes then tell me about ur good news.if she says no then u can ask her again any time when u will feel she will be ready for marriage
2006-08-09 23:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL aww so sweet sounds great! I say go for it and dont be nervous, if she really loves you like you think she does ur gonna get the answer you want!
2006-08-09 16:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her and u know she loves u stop worring. if its meant 2 b then it will happen. just tell her how much u love her and all ur feelings u may think its girly but girls love when u want 2 tell them how u feel. i wish u the best of luck.
2006-08-09 16:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by JRS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish u all the luck dude. have a very happy married life
2006-08-09 16:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by sapsayzkillit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to a nice romantic movie, show her love and the ring then ask her will she marry you
2006-08-09 16:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by blklove1219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it special. Do something you know she likes. Surprise, Surprise, Surprise. God bless you. Let us know what happened.
2006-08-09 16:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ucan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it very romanticly. candles, rose petals. the whole shabang!
2006-08-09 16:53:40 · answer #11 · answered by wrestling diva!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋