There is a girl who goes to my school, and I want to ask her out. She is always with her friends and I'm not outgoing enough to ask her in front of them. We used to be friends a loooooooooooooong time ago. What is the best way for me to ask her out without looking stupid if I am shy/nervous around her?
2006-08-09 16:38:57 · 6 answers · asked by meflyfaster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember if you trip over yourself, it's not unusual and it's not bad. Yeah her and her friends MIGHT laugh but don't take it personal. Just remember your there for the girl you want and no one else. If she rejects you based on what her friends think/say your better off without her. Just walk up to her and ask her out. No point in beating around the bush. Especially if you two were once friends or whatever. Good luck.....Remember whatever you do is human everyone does it whether they admit it or not is another.
2006-08-09 16:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her out right off the start. Talk and get to know her. I know it might be hard with her friends always around, but even if you can get her on msn or email, that will work just fine. Just be cool with her and see how things go for a week or 2 (or 3 or 4). If she shows any signs of interest in you, then go for it and ask her out.
I know the hardest part can be getting up the courage to ask out a girl you like, but you just have to go balls-out and do it. It doesn't even need to be "would you like to go to the movies with me this weekend?". Instead, try asking her to hang out with you where it is not necessarily considered a date; ie: "I can't help but notice you have a talent for style, would you like to come shopping with me? I need to pick a few things up and would like a womans opinion..". Now any guy knows women LOVE to shop, so try that out and see what happens. That way you guys can spend the day together, see if theres any sparks, THEN if all goes well you can ask her out on an official "date". Plus, asking her to go shopping with you is alot less nervracking and intense than a "date".
Goodluck!
2006-08-09 23:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mattyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you write her a note and slip it into her locker. You could tell her that you miss being friends with her and that you would like to know if there was a chance of you two becoming a couple. You should take the time to see if you could work as friends first though. What if she is nothing like you thought she'd be?
You could call her or e-mail her about your feelings too.
2006-08-09 23:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to her again. go out of your way to do stuff for her (i.e. hold open the door, elp her with her schoolwork, w/e). dont overdo it! shell think youre a wierdo stalker. earn her trust. then when she feels comfortable, ask her if she wants to see a movie or go out to lunch. keep it casual. dinner is too much. she might get like claustrophobic. thats not the right word, but its all i can think of. she get uncomfortable and leave. if she has a good time, ask her if she wants to go out again. IMPORTANT!! Dont ask her to go out until a few days later. like a week or so, and only when its a good time for HER. then life will take its course. good luck :)
2006-08-09 23:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dope boy magic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a friend always a friend, ask her could you speak to her in pivite and just ask the question, made I take you out sometime. simple and not stupid
2006-08-09 23:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by blklove1219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should reintroduce yourself 1st. get to know her again and see if there is any chemistry between you two. and if so just ask something like hey im going to the movies would you like to come with me? my treat!
2006-08-09 23:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋