Isn't that what friends are for. look out 4 each other
2006-08-09 16:07:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate the dude
2006-08-09 16:15:08 · update #1
and I ask because people said I should have stayed out of it
2006-08-09 16:15:54 · update #2
i absolutly agree with u. my best friend is dating my brother and i tell her things that she should know about him .. i would wnat someone to tell me that im being used or hurt. i would also do the same to my friend if she was being used
2006-08-09 16:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by smturner18 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
From your question, I take it she isn't speaking to you right now. Give it time. She is hurting right now. I found out someone was using a friend and, when I told the friend, got punched. That friend asked for forgiveness because of the shock to find out about being used. Just be there for your friend. If she is a true friend, she will be glad you stuck with her.
2006-08-09 23:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong, from the standpoint of being a friend.
However.... one thing to consider is that many girls think so little of themselves, that they want a guy, even if that guy cheats on them. If your friend really wants a guy like that, then, at some point, that is her decision to make (and live with). if this is the same friend who is now sleeping with lots of hot guys, then she may be bipolar (or have some other issues that would benefit from professional counseling). If she does not seem to readjust to more stable behaviors soon, I would urge her to consider counseling.
2006-08-09 23:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea so if you knew she was being played as a fool and you show her the proof that is what a friend suppose to do but if you knew about it and did nothing of it then she wouldn't be your friend asking you how could she do this to me and think you hate for it so i think you was bright for looking out for her
2006-08-09 23:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you did wrong was, u got in her personal life found information (maybe u weren't supposed 2 find) showed it to her, it made her mad because she probally feel like your invading her space. What you really should've done was let her found out her self instead of snooping!
2006-08-09 23:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mercedes J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from the looks of it, u did nothing wrong. u were being a great friend. u did the right thing! :)
2006-08-09 23:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ska Baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a good friend don't worry. You were loooking out for your friends best interest. Why do you feel so bad. He was using her and that was mean. Now unless you wanted him or was jelous of her I could see why you would feel bad.
2006-08-09 23:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing, you did the right thing, she might be upset right now but only because you forced her to see something she did not want to see
but it was in her best interest and i think that as she starts thinking things through she will realize this
2006-08-09 23:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Willow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you did anything wrong. She will probably see more clearer in time, and not be mad at you. Just give her some time to work thru her emotions.
2006-08-09 23:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U did the right thing, but remember no one likes to be told they are wrong specially coming from ur bff.
2006-08-09 23:11:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course it's better than her finding out and he breaks up with her
your a good friend u did the right thing
don't b sorry
2006-08-09 23:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by nina buena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋