I have been chatting with a guy for a few weeks now, and he mentioned that he would like to meet me someday.He wanted to call me so, he called me twice in one day.He usually IMs me as soon as he gets online, saying Hi Cutie. The other day he was telling me how he thought noone thought he was attractive. But he is actually highly attractive and has pictures on the net so why he think that? Like I was suppose to feel sorry for him. I said so i guess your not interested in me at all, he replies with , "I didnt say that". What is this suppose to mean? Mixed signals I hate this. What does he want? to string me along, so he IMs me as soon as he gets online, calls me twice in one day,What is this about? And then when i say " so your not interested in me" he says" I didnt say that" . Just someone give me some help with these mixed signals.
2006-08-09 16:05:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, dear. He likes you. It's just a game he plays called, "hard to get". I personally hate mind games. =P
2006-08-09 16:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by -:|:- michelle -:|:- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, that sounds very clear to me. Ever consider the possibilty that he's got a low self esteem and he really does think he's not very good looking? Just because YOU think he is and maybe half of america will think he is, doesn't mean HE does. Or maybe he was just having a bad day and just wanted to hear someone say it. Men don't air their insecurities the way women do, it's very "unmanly" to say, "Am I cute?". lol But I don't understand why would you take his comment about finding himself unattractive to mean that he isn't interested in you. So I don't think it's mixed signals; I just think you're reading too much into things. Men aren't comfortable at all being vulnerable and when they are, when they admit insecurities, you have to treat them very gently or they're gonna suck right back into their shells faster than you can blink. lol
2006-08-09 16:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't throwing any mixed signals.. you just know how to read them. He wants you to tell him he's attractive. He's probably self-centered. He wants to meet you and he called twice in one day. He sounds like a loser and prolly desperate. He IM's you as soon as you get online? i don't see any mixed signals.
You sound like the type that makes things more complicated than they are, and I'm even betting that you blow some things out of porportion
2006-08-09 16:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God,
Haven't you read or don't you watch the news. This man could be a killer at worst and a predator at least. Do not meet him!!!!!! You are worth more than that. Don't take on line talk from guys seriously. Please, think about your safety. Your mother would be livid if she thought this were the way you were meeting guys. They can use any picture, you can think he's cute and then meet some crazed, wierdo.....please start doing things that let you meet real live people. Get into some clubs, church or local teen activity group. go to the movies with friends. Please find something to do and do not meet any guy off the internet. Please!!!
2006-08-09 16:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said it yourself-- he's sending you all kinds of mixed signals, getting you wrapped up in needless drama. Who knows what the real story is, or if that's even him.
There is one simple solution to all this-- meet a real guy, in the real world. You want drama? Turn on the T.V. and watch the soaps, and/or Springer.
2006-08-09 16:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to hope that you will meet him, but be very cautious, lots of Weirdoes are on the Internet. He might turn out to be not at all what he tells you.and the Picture could be anyone. I hope you are not very young, if you are get your parents involved,please! But again,be very careful I have heard horror Stories about People .
2006-08-09 16:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the mixed signals anywhere. He likes you, I mean if a guy spends time on you, he likes you well enough. If he flirts he likes you more than enough. Be yourself though. Another advice too: don't expect too much with online friends, just go with the flow. :>
2006-08-09 16:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Violetcharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are his "net" pictures real?
and how did you get the idea he wasnt interested in you based on his complaining that he isnt attractive
he seems interested to me just a little insecure
i dont see the mixed signals thing at all
2006-08-09 16:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Willow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the straight forward type. He is the "everything in his mind" type and lack assurance and feel insecure. Needs to know his feet is planted firmly before he ventures forth. And i suspect, he wants you to make the first move distintly and lead in the friendship.
2006-08-09 16:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't say he wasn't interested in you; he just wanted to see if you thought he was attractive. Call it a pity party. He wanted you to say something like, "Don't say that! You are very attractive!" It's just a male ego thing.
2006-08-09 16:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋