How do i make a guy totally fall for me? I really love him, but i want him to love me too. I need flirting help. Please only serious advice!!! I have liked him for a while now. i need help!!!!! Tell me something that will make him want me really bad!
2006-08-09 16:03:45 · 5 answers · asked by SuRf3rQT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have to wear uniforms, so its really hard to look hot. I want him to fall for me quickly, and i know you can't rush love, but i need tips. I don't want it to be all " I love you!" confession junk.
2006-08-09 16:17:33 · update #1
I'm not an adult yet, so i want some youthful advice. NO doing it. But please, I'm above 12 so no ammature stuff, either.
2006-08-09 16:21:55 · update #2
Unfortunately, there is no 'real' and 100% way to make a guy fall for you. Or a girl, for a guy, for that matter.
There are ways, however, to let him know that you ~are~ interested in him though, without telling him upfront, if you are nervous. Whether or not he will end up showing the same interest in you, is a different story.
It really depends on the type of guy he is, and what he finds attractive, physcially/mentally/emotionally/etc. but these are basic tips; Actions speak louder than words, and body langage is essential.
When conversing with him:
* Keep eye contact with him. If you glance around too much, it may seem to him that you are disinterested and bored, or really nervous.
* Tilt your head curiously, and smile. Grant it, that you are truely interested, this should come natural.
* Touch his arm gently or nudge him subtlely, when he has made a point, or said something that you agree with.
* Don't be afraid to say his name a couple times. It means that he is memorable to you.
* If you are sitting down, lean in towards him, or sit closer to him. It will show that you feel comfortable and confident being close to him.
* Don't be afraid to laugh. =]
* Try to find common ground with him. The more common interests you have, the more likely you can develop a friendship, if you aren't already friends, and the more likely that could develop into something more over time.
* Don't be fake; show him the real you. If he does end up liking you, make sure he likes the real ~you~.
Funny thing is, you may already be doing some of these things, and you're not even aware that you're doing it; It's subconscious. But, if he is good with reading people though, he may pick up the signals your body is sending, and get your vibe.
And if all else fails, of course, you could just outright always tell him how you feel, when you think that you are ready. And that he is too!
Hope this helps just a little at least. Good luck. =D
2006-08-09 16:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not big on flirting either, but I can tell you what I know. If he's like a lot of guys, just being friendly ought to do the trick if he happens to think you're attractive already. But if you want actual techniques, you should have a look at this:
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
I think it was put together by psychologists or sociologists. It's the most comprehensive guide to flirting I've ever seen, and I think you'll like it. Good luck!
2006-08-09 16:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is unnecsisary touching... a flash of a smile... and lustful looks. it will definetly let a guy know that u are interested, but i dont know about fall in love. ur personality will have to do that.
2006-08-09 16:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be lovable. When you love yourself for who you are, then everyone else will follow suit. When you respect yourself, then others will respect you, too.
Just that simple.
2006-08-09 16:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress sexily, seduce him
2006-08-09 16:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by he 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋