This is a three part question....have you ever had a bad kisser and if so...how long did that relationship last with that bad kisser AND do u think you can train/help a bad kisser become a good kisser or is the case just utterly hopeless. I am trying to see if people who have had bad kissing experiences, do the relationships pan out or is it a hopeless cause.
2006-08-09 15:37:05 · 40 answers · asked by dlite1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yes! She used to act like my whole face was made out of Chocolate cake....
Yeah, people can be trained for something like kissing, if they're open minded enough. Give it a couple of days of practice and everyone will be happy :-P
2006-08-09 15:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by the_big_v 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have had two bad kissers, but the worse was this guy I new in high school he would get from my nose to chin completely wet and would take off all the makeup I was wearing in that area. It lasted two weeks at the most, but before the whole kissing badly thing I started to not like him which made everything a lot worse. As I started to get older I noticed that men in general got better at kissing and basically we would form our own way of kissing each other. My husband wasn't a fantastic kisser when we first met but he wasn't really bad either. Through loads of making out, I showed him how to kiss me better( though he will never admit to it). I think if you keep your tongue in the mouth area, relax and you do not completely drench her then the girl might stick around for more and if she doesn't then she probably didn't really like you in the first place. take care
2006-08-09 15:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by shiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had a bad kisser, actually it was horriable. And the relationship lasted about a year and a half only cause I avoided the kissing thing and there maybe a way to teach someone how to kiss but everyone has their own technique and maybe someone out there will like there's. I really wouldnt want to teach someone to kiss to my likings, just find that quality already in someone.
2006-08-09 15:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by littlemama025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the thought of that question bring backs horrors
. I dated this man and just from the looks of his lips I knew he would not be a good kisser.
But I was being nice and was going to give it a try. After the first date he said well do I get a kiss and I go, I am sorry I never kiss on the first date
. So I thought ok.... that went smooth. So he calls again and asks for another date.
I told him when he asked for a kiss that it was to soon and we needed to get to know each other before we kissed.
Ya, I wanted to take this man to bed. But just looking at his lips made me gag
. i could not hurt his feelings so on the third date, and since it was valentines I let him kiss me, it was worse then I had thought. It was cold and slimmy and it sent shivers down my spine, and not the sexual kind either
. He wanted to make love so bad. so i thought, how can i do this without kissing him. i then told him. i am sorry I should have told you my daughter and I have strep and I do not want you to get it.
so imagine having sex with no kissing.... Then came the weiner... hell I do not know what was worse his lips or his wierner. They were both cold and slimmy. I was so grossed out.
Then I look down and I am like oh my god, where is his wiener. It was so small. anyway he came while he was putting it in me. He had not yet put it in, was in the process.
This guy was good looking, wealthy and a nice guy. But his lips and dick were to cold and slimmy. there was no way in hell i was ever gonna touch him again or let him touch me.
This man was falling in love with me. I would have never had to work again, he would have been a father to my daughter. Would have had a good life. Never having to worry about money. But I could not do it......
. Then he invited me to a buisness conferance out of state. Nice big resort, all exclusive. I would have to pay for nothing. As much as I would have loved to go, I had to say no.
I am in my later 30's if a person can not kiss by that age, then they will never learn...it is not worth the time or effort or the grossness to see if you can teach him to kiss better
.
2006-08-09 15:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I had a bad kisser one time when I was in high school. He was extremely slobbery!
I went out with him once! That was enough!
I don't think that you can train someone to be a good kisser... at least I'm not willing to put forth the effort. Either you have it or you don't. If you don't, I'm moving on!
2006-08-09 15:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by grahamma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know, I've only ever had 1 gf and she's a great kisser. I don't think there is such thing as a bad kisser though, kissing's a natural thing. But If there is such a thing I think time and practice and patience can make a great kisser.
2006-08-09 15:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah a few actually.. i remember in high school i dated this guy and he kissed me his breath was horrible.. the first time I let it go but after the 2nd i dumped him!
As far as horrible kisser.. yeah i hate anyone who tries to suck the air out of me or slobbers on my chin LOL you can deal with it though... Theres always room for improvement and everyone enjoys different things! Take control of the situation and be confident... thats the only way to change it!
2006-08-09 15:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a kisser who was slobbery.
The relationship broke up after three months owing to other factors.
You have to have a strong relationship to teach someone how to kiss right
2006-08-09 15:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh! I can specifically remember two people who were such bad kissers, I only went out with each them twice. Ted and Johnny. I still feel all creepy when I think of them. I didn't want to stay around long enough to train them -- that's how bad they were.
2006-08-09 15:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes I've had a bad kisser. He would drool when he kissed me!!!
2. We dated a few months.
3. I think he couldn't control it!
2006-08-09 15:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Ivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once dated a guy who nearly ripped my mouth apart when he was kissing me. He was uber rough and worse still he had those vampire canine teeth, which would hurt my lips and gums when he kissed me! The relationship lasted two weeks...and I tried to minimise kissing him those two weeks...*shudder*...oh, and worse still, one day, he asked me to rate his kissing (how immatured!...he was 27!)...so me, being the nice person that I a said a 7...when I wanted to actually save minus 7...so anyway, this egocentric bad kissing moron, was so offended by my 7..that he started sulking...he was like, this is the first time someone's said 7..i'm so hurt, insulted, etc...and all that was going thru my head was, wat's worng with the other women? or maybe it's something to do with me!..oh well, just glad I'm out of that relationship!
2006-08-09 15:45:55 · answer #11 · answered by Gosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋