2006-08-09 15:33:02 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is more to this story. something happened to cause this outburst. no way to comment when the whole picture is not known.
2006-08-09 15:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't.
if you forgive a jerk like that I would say you need help.
If you have proof he did it, the best thing would be call the cops. Let him spend a while in jail. Bubba could use a girlfriend in there, why not send him the girls daddy.
If your daughter hate you for what you did, just tell them that he sounds like a controller, a user, and an abuser. He needs to be tuned.
2006-08-09 15:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by John M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does he deserve your forgivness? He is obviously hostile and has problems. If he has any custody over your daughter maybe you should check into her safety while she is with him. And if you continue to allow your daughter to see her father on a regular bases, (Which I recomend if he's not going to harm her), and if she loves him dearly and is close to him then do NOT bad talk him in front of her. She will end up resenting you.
2006-08-09 15:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 03:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by creasong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you need to contact the law to put a stop to this unacceptable behavior or it will not stop. You will feel less victimized and thus find it easier to forgive.
You need to explain to your daughters why you are taking these measures in a kind and gentle way. If they see you accepting such abuse they will be more likely to become victims themselves later in life.
2006-08-09 15:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy you say you forgive him, doesn't mean your going to forget what he did.
I'd file a Police Report and a Restraining Order
2006-08-09 15:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by thrawns11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, best stay away from danger, he needs professional anger management. Your daughter ought not to be around such environments, keep yourselves safe! You don't have to forgive him, forgive yourself for tolerating such behaviour/s and keep your daughter safe from his harmful ways! Give yourself and your daughter time to heal. Be strong for her, and make a better life for yourselves, one that is filled with love, joy, peace, and happiness. Take care!
2006-08-09 15:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My getting a restraining order and protective custody of your children.
At the end of the day all that matters are the kids. Do whatever it takes to make them safe.
2006-08-09 15:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by mamatohaley+1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That man needs lots of help. Anger management therapy may be...
I think it can be easy to forgive him because he is most likely sick. But please do not forget what he did.
Protect yourself from him. Put a restraining order on him if you have to.
God bless you and good luck..
2006-08-09 15:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You file a police report instead and then you get a restraining order. What happens when he goes after you, instead of the car?
2006-08-09 15:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you forgive him? It sounds like he is an abusive person and you should stay as far away from him as possible
2006-08-09 15:37:50 · answer #11 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋