My second ex girlfriend is perfect. The problem was she is 15 and i am 18, my mom found out and forced a breakup. I was also devasted this time...she's perfect, we have so much in common, normally i wouldn't go for someone so young...but she's way more mature then some of the senior girls i knew. and I remember after the breakup we said we'd always have a soft spot for eachother...and while i was sad, she told me she loved me. And I still love her, I can't help but feel we are gonna be involved someday...we'll both be in college on the east coast. but i had my friend talk to her *subtly* and she said she got over me and doesn't like me now, it's been half a year since we broke up, and she likes a new guy but told me it wouldn't work out for him. She still my friend and we're hanging out soon. should I tell her? sometimes the way she acts towards me makes me question Even though my friend already talked to her about me. I still think about her everyday, please help!
2006-08-09 15:32:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My second ex girlfriend is perfect. The problem was she is 15 and i am 18, my mom found out and forced a breakup. I was also devasted this time...she's perfect, we have so much in common, normally i wouldn't go for someone so young...but she's way more mature then some of the senior girls i knew. and I remember after the breakup we said we'd always have a soft spot for eachother...and while i was sad, she told me she loved me. And I still love her, I can't help but feel we are gonna be involved someday...we'll both be in college on the east coast. but i had my friend talk to her *subtly* and she said she got over me and doesn't like me now, it's been half a year since we broke up, and she likes a new guy but told me it wouldn't work out for him. She still my friend and we're hanging out soon. should I tell her? sometimes the way she acts towards me makes me question.. Even though my friend already talked to her, and she doesn't like me I still think about her everyday, please help!
2006-08-09 20:03:26 · update #1
it is really sad when a intrusion comes in, i cannot judge you for allowing it nor your mom for doing it....some things really cant be helped....yet if you love her why not go? why would you be hesitant?what do you fear? if you feel you love her and you still have a hint that she loves you too Go on!
if you love her show her.....now that you' re in college things would be most probably be diffrent than before, being man enough to stand for what you feel would make her see that her value to you is something beyond age, beyond separation and beyond any obstacles......it is always good to try things out, its pointless to think what would be the outcome too soon.....if you would not want to regret that you did not tell her...tell her now.........pain, failure and all are parts of life, sometimes we need to be down to appreciate being above............maybe the incident when you're mom separated you both was a point when you may reflect on how each other really feels and how each of you matter to each other
sometimes it's all about Guts........do what you can and let God do the rest..........even if you fail, atleast you have tried..........it's better to love and be broken than never to have loved at all....good day.......moon under a mask : )
2006-08-09 15:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by moonunderamask 1 · 8⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to move on. If this girl is "the one" then it will happen when it's meant to be. For now, have fun in school and pay attention to the sights around you - you'll probably meet the next "one" soon. Also, VERY SELDOMELY do you meet the one you will stay with and grow old with before your fully matured
(men 28 women 30). You will be a totally different person then, than you are now!
2006-08-09 15:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by LG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest you wait. Once you go off to college your whole world will change. What will telling her now accomplish? Is she supposed to wait for you at 16? If you still feel the same way in a couple of years then tell her how you feel. You will both be of age at this point and be more matured. Good Luck.
2006-08-09 15:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by genuine1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no longer many times & absolutely no longer with someone i don't think & comprehend particularly properly. i'm satisfied in spite of the undeniable fact that that you're feeling extra effective & the argument has been resolved, so that is tremendous to maintain in mind that speaking about issues can particularly make a huge difference.
2016-11-29 19:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her how u feel and if the feelings are the same then u both can wait until she is 18
2006-08-09 18:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by smileaway25 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude girls don't go for logic, she doesn't want to talk! either kiss her or something, like make a move, OR move on and keep her as a friend. seriously females don't respond well with talk.
2006-08-09 17:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by mwells0629 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes go ahead and let her know what is in your mind, i believe she Will also understand. Good lucky
2006-08-09 19:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by emma1st 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is do wot ur heart tells u 2 do
2006-08-09 19:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by LILO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should tell her, but make it cleat that the answer shouldn't break your friendship instead. Tell her how you feel, or you may always regret it.
2006-08-09 15:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you should definitely tell her... you got nothing to lose right? and you will know what she really feels about you... i know there is the fear of rejection but you have to be a man and face it...
just tell her.. how would u know... maybe she still have feelings for you...:P
2006-08-09 15:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by moonstruckmissy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋