Im in a very difficult situation and ive tryed everything to make things better but nothings worked. Ok im sure most of yall gonna be shocked but this is true and its my life ok. My father is gay and has a boyfriend who has a VERY nice lookin brother and my dad's boyfriend's brother is bi but has been with women more than men anyways i know this might sound crazy but i have fallen for him he is currently living with me and my father and his boyfriend. My father and him started to hang out while his boyfriend was at work and my father has devolpe a crush on him and now he has become obbested to him. His boyfriend doenst know but my dad really likes his brother but his brother doesnt want that with my dad and he told my dad he likes me and my dad started to get jelous and forbid me to hang out with him or he'll kick me out or him and we both have no where to go so we keep on the low but lately things have gotton so bad that my father gets mad if i sit in the same room as that guy
2006-08-09 15:30:17 · 16 answers · asked by Jiscela m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he even gets mad if he hears us laughing togethor. ok i dunno what to do because i dont wanna make my dad mad and i dont wanna lose that guy because of this. I am so worried about making my dad upset at me that i cant even have fun its like id rather him to be happy than me, What should i do????????????
2006-08-09 15:32:27 · update #1
Sounds like you need to get out of that situation and grow up. You live in a pretty sick family. Not because of the gay thing, just the situation. Truly, if you have any respect for yourself and your body, get out of there and get a normal life.
2006-08-09 15:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh well u have a really difficult situation...um u could always hang out with the guy outside ur house..or u can always just go and find a different guy!..i think finding a different guy will probably help the silution the most because u dont wanna get ur dad mad at u..and if something goes wrong with this guy..ur dad may find out...so i just suggest u find another man!..its better off if u forget about ur dad's bfs bro.
2006-08-09 15:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by baby_you-had-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you are in a very tight matter i think you need to be very careful about that bi guy you like.second do you really like this guy ? r u sure hes right for u? can you believe that he is all for you? do u think that he will leave guys alone?i think that your dad is crazy but maybe its in your best interest if you dont mess with him. r u into him being bi?i really feel for you just really think it through you really need to make sure that your going to be okay if today you sleep with him and then tommrow he wants a male to please him. good luck best wishes. i also really think that you and your dad should sit down and chat let him know how u feel he cant control you .
2006-08-09 15:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you need to sit down and have a talk with your father and make him realize that he cant have his cake and eat it too
your dad may have a crush on his boyfriends son but your dad needs to also notice that he should want you to be happy too. i understand your difficulties and i would just stand your ground and do what ever it takes to show that your feelings are strong and dont let him beat you up
2006-08-09 15:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many things you need to do that I don't know where to start. First though, you have to find a way to move out. Until you are out from under your father's roof, this whole messy situation will continue to deteriorate.
2006-08-09 15:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa that is crazy stuff, first off your dad is wrong for trying to have his cake and eat it too, your dad is a grown man, he should not be doing that stupid crap.
If you like him cool, can you deal with the fact he plays for both teams? you should tell you dad's b/f/ bro how you feel. if you dont say anything then you wont know right?
2006-08-09 15:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK 2 YOUR DAD. tell him that he is already in a relationship. tell him he has 2 stop cock blockin cuz the guy u like mutually isn't interested in him. tell him that u need 2 have some fun 2.
2006-08-09 15:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try my best to get out as fast as i could bc u need to be happy. i wouldnt give up a guy that i was in love with for nothing so yeah u and that guy need to find some where to live
2006-08-09 15:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as u can get outta there.tell the guy u like that u have to keep it on the down low cuz of ur dad so that he knos ur not ignoring him for now.ah!good luck!
2006-08-09 15:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that really sucks. Dont go for BI-curious men.. if they are bi thats a signal they dont know what they want or they want it all! Its cool to be friends but as far as a relationship- dont count on it! You are only looking for heartbreak!
2006-08-09 15:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋