me now that I'm engaged? Ever since I've told friends, co-workers, etc about my engagement, some females have opened up and want to be a "fling before the ring" - why?
2006-08-09 15:25:34 · 12 answers · asked by Big Buddy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'cause they realise that you're the sorta guy that isn't afraid of commitment...and that's what msot women want...I'm not sure if you get me...It's like, you're one of the good guys...the wife-to-be has affirmed that by agreeing to marry you...so since someone's already done the whole "research" thing and "tested you", etc...it's like so much easier to just suddenly swoop in and steal the prize...sorta like plagiarism...no effort required...or should I say, minimal effort required...
2006-08-09 15:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Gosh 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not all females are like that, but there are woman out there that feel that they want what they cant have, it is all about the chase.
Don't fall for it, because they will cheat on you to and you don't want to start your relationship with your wife to be as a cheater.
2006-08-09 22:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is easy.
Girls love competition, they love feeling and knowing the fact that they can take a taken man away from his woman.
It's like a power trip.
If they can get them, that means they're better than other girls.
Most girls compete against other girls.
2006-08-09 22:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they have liked you all along, but now they feel the pressure? Some chicks like stealing men? You're a guy who commits, and we like that?
I personally think its sleazy.
2006-08-09 22:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Elli . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an ego trip. You go ahead and do it if you want. You're the only one who knows if its worth it, but if you cant do the time, dont do the crime. :)
2006-08-09 22:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by happybeanstalk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because now you "aren't available". some people have no morals whatsoever and they thrive on the challenge of getting at someone who is already "taken"
2006-08-09 22:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by traveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For people afraid of intimacy, you are safe now.
They are playing/ or using you.
2006-08-09 22:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lynda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are just like that and so are some men. its tacky and dont do it.
2006-08-09 22:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with huggy bear
2006-08-09 23:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Sweets~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanting what is off limits.
2006-08-09 22:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋