Its hurts a bit cause she is my bf. The stuff she says ways heavily on me and the decisions I make with these guys. Her guy is not perfect. What would U do, she is even rude to them sometimes
2006-08-09 15:11:35 · 15 answers · asked by covergirl1303 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a girlfriend like that... I used to be very hurt whenever she said something mean about someone that I liked... I found out years later that she was extremely insecure and thought that my having a boyfriend/other friends would mean that I wouldn't pay anymore attention to her.
2006-08-09 15:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sahara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is seriously jealous. The two of you should have a heart to heart talk about how she is hurting your feelings. You need to let her know that the guys you date are your own choice - not hers and that her opinions about their looks are best kept to herself. She is going to ruin your friendship with that kind of mean spirited commenting.
2006-08-09 15:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by CALI_GURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my best friend makes fun of my bf(not in front of his face..) and says stuff like u can do better ...but like shes like my sister..and i know it hurts...and the only time she cudnt say anything was a time i was goin out with this guy we both liked...but if u and ur best friend are the way me and mine are....u should totally tell her how u feel! ...she may even be jokin aroun bout stuff. ..but seriously u should tell her it doesnt make u feel good..or it could even be shes doin it for ur own good bcuz she believes truly u can do better..
2006-08-09 15:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by baby_you-had-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine no longer something is inaccurate with ur BF, that's in straightforward words that ur chum is making an attempt to be too sensible & taking income of the shown actuality that u are slightly naive . Take ur stand woman & do no longer let that bi*tch smash ur romance.
2016-11-23 18:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes jealous! and plus he is your boyfriend and you have the right to go out with anyone that you want as long as he makes you happy. i think you should talk to her about how u feel and tell her that it bothers you when she points out all your BF's faults and that you never do that to her.
2006-08-09 15:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to shut up or find a new best friend. I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate it if you were to do the same thing; if she's trying to make you shallow don't let her succeed. It's your choice not hers, and if she doesn't respect that, she can piss off.
2006-08-09 15:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she is really your friend, No friend of mine would do that.
She may be jealous, but Life is hard enough and you really don't need all of that negativity in your life
2006-08-09 15:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... too black?! I've never heard of such a thing. Sounds like she's scraping a bit. Maybe she's afraid you won't have time for her anymore.... I dunno but that's funny as hell. TOO BLACK. Have your bf tell her she's too dependant and see what she has to say to that.
2006-08-09 15:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by cabinfeverjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and point out to her in a nice way that she is critical over everything and tell her how much it bothers you....... tell her that you would rather hear positive things from her ......... if she is your best friend she would want to hear this from you......
2006-08-09 15:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby she jus dont want to see u happy....u might thank she a tru friend and she may not bee....as long as u happy dats all dat matta...keep ya head up.......
1Luv
2006-08-09 15:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋