I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now. Everything seemed perfect! We saw each other yesterday. The furthest we've gone is kissing.
Now I don't know if I did or said something wrong, but today this *** had the nerve to mention looking up two "long lost" female college friends. WTF? Was that some lame attempt to make me jealous? Then he kind of brags about how one of them is about to get her PhD. And the icing on the cake was when he asked for MY advice about the best way to go about contacting her.
Why would he mention that to me? I'm trying my best not to just send a bitter text message ending everything! Didn't his mama ever teach him to NEVER try to make a Scorpio woman jealous?!
Is this his way of trying to tell me he's not into me?
2006-08-09 15:09:42 · 11 answers · asked by Delilah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl watch ur man
2006-08-09 15:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, text messaging is lame, no offense but if you decide to end something you should actually talk to him. Guys always say the wrong thing because they're APES! j/k Anyway, he either is trying to tell you that he's not into you but doesn't want to hurt you (they don't understand that they make it worse by doing this) or that he doesn't want anything serious. Have you said anything that could have been misconstrued to make him feel like you don't want a relationship? I would just flat out ask him why he's even talking to you when he's obviously still into this other girl. If he doesn't have an answer tell him you don't see the point of waisting your time with him when you can be with someone else.
2006-08-09 15:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gal on a Jet Plane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was starting to see where you were coming from, until you completely massacred your credibility with the scorpio part. So I think you're definitely overreacting, and you shouldn't be compaining if things are going so great. There are people out there that do have serious relationship problems. If he wants to talk to other girls, even old friends that he knew before he met you, then he's definitely entitled to it. If you prevent him from doing that, then he should probably find someone else anyway. "bragging" about the PhD? Somehow I doubt that it was bragging. You're supposed to be proud of your friends, otherwise I bet you wouldn't make a very good one.
2006-08-09 15:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer even going to end reading this entire ingredient. I actually have a distinctly solid concept of the place you're going with it, because of the fact i've got had this sort of friendship earlier. i do no longer think of you're misreading something. pals, without the charm, do no longer take a seat with their legs intertwined. you need to locate a thank you to tell her which you finally end up interested in women folk each and every from time to time, or which you're thinking your sexuality. Or tell her which you will no longer have faith the relationship you 2 have and it confuses you. i replaced into not at all waiting to have any of those conversations with my buddy. i did no longer decide directly to settle for that i could be gay. At almost 31, i'm accepting it and finally finding happiness. do no longer wait goodbye. i do no longer remorseful approximately, yet I do ask your self "what if..."
2016-09-29 02:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by wichern 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being paranoid and possessive. He can have female friends if wants to. His life didn't start when he met you. The fact that he asked your advice on how to contact her is a good thing: it shows he has nothing to hide.
2006-08-09 15:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't actually asked you to be his girlfriend then you need to let him know that your relationship is unclear.
If he assumed you were his new girlfriend then you might want to let him know if that is the case you thought it was odd he would discuss the 2 friends he wants to look up.
If he just wants to date with no real commitment then ask him if it would bother him if you dated others. there will be your answer.
2006-08-09 15:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Susie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey maybe he jus feels comfortable enough wid u to talk bout that... and even if he is tryin to make u jealous... if u show that u got pissed because u think that he was tryin to make u jealous in the end ur the one losin control anyways... if u help him... show him that u dunt care bout that yet also show him that u care bout him.. he'll learn that his stupid games dunt apply to u... that way u wont sound easy to agitate and in the end he'll probably lose interest in findin these chicks...
2006-08-09 15:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by damn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to tell you that he thinks of you more like a sister than anything.
2006-08-09 15:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by x-factor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's ready to move on and he's not man enough to tell you so he's playing games.
Don't continue to play the game with him, you're better than that.
2006-08-09 15:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he doesn't want you or he doesn't like the fact you threaten him saying "Dammit, I'm a Scorpio Woman!"
2006-08-09 15:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋