I wen tout with this one girl for about 2 months, and everything seemed to be going great. Then she went on a vacation and I went on a vacation and we didn't see each other for 3 weeks. When I got back, she told me she had thought about us and would just be really good friends. She has told me I'm one of the greatest people she knows and still wants to hang out with me. However, we haven't hung out once since this happened. She almost seems like she's avoiding me.
I know 2 months isn't a long time with someone, but I feel like we are perfect for each other. Since she left me, my life has felt miserable and I would do anything to get her back, but don't know how to tell her this.
Can somebody please help me get the woman of my dreams back?
2006-08-09 14:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by delta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave her or him and go find a true person
2006-08-16 23:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sara *Life is so unlike theory* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through that back in March. The guy and I were together only 6 weeks, and then we both took off for a week on vacations, and came back with friends sounding better. I don't understand it either though b/c we were really great together. Just SOMETHING prevented it from working out. I don't think you can really just do something to get her back. If she wants you, she'll come around sometime. Best thing to do is move on and be happy elsewhere. Or, at least be happy alone.
2006-08-09 21:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly...that is how a lot of people break off relationships. she likes you and respects you she just doesn't want a romantic relationship with you.
it sux and i hate to tell you this bc i'm sure its not what you want to hear but you should probably move on...if she wants you back...great...if not at least you have already started the healing process. time heals all wounds. i know it hurts now and you miss her. have fun, smile, laugh a lot...do whatever it takes to laugh it will help you take our mind off of her...good luck...it will all work out we've ALL been there
2006-08-10 22:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by murfeezlaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make her love you. Give her space and back off. Move on. Maybe when she see's that you have gone on with your life she will get curious about you again. If not then at least you will be dating and in doing so you may even forget about her in time. Don't sweat her. Be cool.
2006-08-16 19:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u fell that always work and if she feels the same way everthing will go right i was u luck now go get here before somebody else do
2006-08-09 22:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by lilmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just got bored from you. Let it go.
The same thing happened to me, my boyfriend got bored, and like you I tried to get him back, and I did!!! But in the end he did got bored from me earlier so then I got bored =) It will be the same for you too.
2006-08-17 08:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time if she really wants to be with you it will happen,dont try to force yourself on anyone it never works that way.good luck
2006-08-09 22:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by PODETHCRO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to tell her...write her a romantic hand-written letter to express how you feel for her...maybe throw in a poem or something.
2006-08-16 16:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT ONLY BEEN 2MONTHS, SO GIVE IT TIME, DONT RUSH
IT, BUT IT SOUND LIKE SHE HAS MOVE ON, AND SORRY
TO SAY YOU MAY HAVE TO DO THE SAME.
2006-08-17 00:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋