I have know this man for about 2 years and i see him just about every other day he is almost 10 years older than me. we talk alot and he says he worries about me sometimes. he always looks at me diffrently as in whenever we are talking he looks in my eyes and then turns away as soon as i look at him. does this mean anything?
we played softball together thats how i met him
2006-08-09 14:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by Addie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the softball team is a co-ed team. Nobody nows i like him im to scared to say anything to him about it but i want to find out how he feels about me
thanx to everyone that left an answer, helped alot
2006-08-10 08:19:28 · update #1
I think he a little sweet on you. It is sometimes difficult for an older man to ask a younger woman out. They are afraid of being rejected as lecherous or perverts. He probably is hoping that you'll say something.
Invite him over to your place for dinner and cook something simple. Then open a bottle of wine and watch a movie on the sofa. At some point during the evening, you'll have an opportunity to tell him that you'd like to be more than friends.
2006-08-09 14:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if his so concern about your health is probably beacuse he loves you, and the fact that his older only indicate that his at a stage in life where his looking for a long-term relationship and not a good time. But the fact that he doens't looks at you in the eye might mean that his hidding something, I guess the best thing to do is be honest ans ask him about his intentions. Best of luck
2016-03-27 05:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a man 10 years older than me and things did not work out so good, but if you love him ask him if he feels the same way about you. Look at his eyes, you could tell by the way he looks at you.
2006-08-09 15:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Izabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let me tell you something if you aren't over the age 28 then you need to run like hell! Trust me been there done that, and the dude turned out to be a damn stalker. Run with all your might the other direction! I was 26 and this dude was 40. He lost his damn mind because he got a hit of something younger and went crazy!
2006-08-09 15:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number, ask him out to eat or something, or to the movies. My aunt and uncle are 13 yrs apart and they are so0o in love. and my sister dated a guy 18 yrs older than her and everything is working good for them. Good luck!!
2006-08-09 14:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by tabatha1333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate your feelings towards him with simple gesturs, sounds like to me he is either shy or insecure towards you. i speak form experience when i tell you that when a guy dates or sees a younger woman it is very nerve wracking. reassure him of your feelings, expalin thatthe age thing is no biggie cuase you dig him
2006-08-09 15:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by yuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi addie. your friend is probably falling in love with you. there maybe some other stuff that concerns him. ask him if he would like to confide.
2006-08-09 15:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by bel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express how you feel and then ask him.
2006-08-09 14:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u think?
2006-08-10 08:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋