o.k. just curious need a woman to explain this to me. someone gave this girl my number, we talked for about 45 min we had a good conversation but after that i called her once no answer no return call? and im not the type of guy to chase a gurl (unless she want to be caught) so i called her one last time left a voicemail that i will not call her no more! can a lady tell me what happenned, and please dont get me wrong i know how to talk to a lady with no games or gimmicks i know what a woman is looking for and i was starting to like her personality oh well! can someone tell me what went wrong. mature answers please!
2006-08-09 14:46:48 · 21 answers · asked by DUSTY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly- from what I just read- she may not be interested in you.
Im very sorry to say-But thats the impression that I would get if someone does not return my calls.
If you see her or if you run into that someone that gave her your number- ask her or that someone why and what happened. You do have a right to know.
But if you never hear anything back from either of them- just move on. Its not worth your time and energy anyways.
2006-08-09 14:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one knows what went wrong except you and her, think about your last conversation, there maybe something about it. How many times you call her w/ no answer, maybe she just wasn't able to answer the phone and maybe she's not the type of girl who call first or return call on a guy, maybe she's just waiting for your another call, how many times you tried to contact her? You said you left a voicemail saying that you will not call her anymore and you do, as you said you are not the type of guy to chase a girl and maybe she is too, with what you've said on voicemail, she may not be interested too. Everybody has different personality, she's different from your's and if you're considering w/ what you have and not learn to shift, it will be difficult for you to know and accept other personality. You said you're starting to like her personality then do a way to know her better and accept it. One call is not enough........
2006-08-09 22:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by psyche28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wasn't ready to meet anyone and the person who gave her the number thought that she wanted to be set up...another possibility is that she's seeing other people and is keeping you in reserve...You only left 2 messages...it's possible that she had a family emergency or never got the first one...
For next time: just because she didn't call you back right away don't say "I'm not going to call you anymore" just leave it open...
2006-08-09 21:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by jillymack06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After talking for 45 minutes, you had enough time to tell her your entire life story. Any mystery or adventure about the unknown portions of your life has probably already been told. If you want her to call you back, "tempt her with a carrot". Leave a voice mail along these lines in order to picque her curiosity... "I bought you a surprise gift I thought you might like. Want to see it?"... "How would you like to see my new addition to my CD collection?... "When is the last time you've been at the roller rink? I need someone to teach me how."... "Call me to hear a song I wrote just for you"...
2006-08-09 22:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she had a lot of stuff going on in her life at the moment...who knows? She could have intended to call you back, but after that last voicemail you left...maybe now she feels too embarrassed to do so.
2006-08-09 21:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by nava_clue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a lot of thing.She probably wasn't feeling you. Or she could be busy and haven't had the time to call you back. I my self liked a guy and he called me more times then he thought he should and asked me what is wrong with me.. I explained I like him as much as he liked me but I was busy.. If you left a message and she hasn't called you in like four or five days..she didn't click with you. but if it only been a day or so.. she probably got some things going on.
2006-08-09 21:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by xoxoxome21@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes you..thats why shes doing it. she wants to see if you like her by not answering. and telling her your not going to call her back didnt really help your chances of getting with her... all i can say is give her a couple of days then call her and if she dont answer leave a message and be nice just say u was thinking about her and wanted to say hi. and u miss her cuz u havent talked to her in a while... dont worry if shes the one for you....it will all work out!
2006-08-09 21:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. The girl probably left
2. maybe she wasn't interested in you and maybe didn't like your personality even though you liked hers
3.maybe she was trying to play with your mind so you could want to chase after her.
2006-08-09 21:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is really busy and can't return your phone call that happens sometimes or maybe she is just really shy and don't know how to keep the converstaion going.. wait a few days and see if she calls you and if not than just give up.
2006-08-09 21:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Melinda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women!
I don't know but leave it up to her now - i hope you left your number just incase it was something minor like she was in a meeting or something.
Good luck.
2006-08-09 21:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by muffy20052001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋