i mean i really love the guy to death but i never see him
he travels alot with his band & he lives 3 hours away from me
but he says that it was love at first sight and he would do anything for me
UMMMMMM
2006-08-09 14:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by Jonatello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i didnt really say anything
he said i can have all the time i needed to answer him
2006-08-09 14:57:07 · update #1
If you love him, do you want to spend the rest of your life with him, even if he is traveling? If you do, then say yes. Then tell everyone. If you cannot imagine your life without him in it - calling you, thinking of you and being with you when he is not traveling, then you should probably marry him. But this is a question only you can answer. Talk with him, let him know what your misgivings are and see what he has to say.
2006-08-09 15:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. if you really love the guy.. you shouldn't have to ask this question.. you wouldn't even have thought twice about saying yes if he's the one for you.. if you're worried about saying yes simply for not seeing him.. is there some way that you could travel with him and his band? if you get married you need to spend time together and being apart for long periods of time can be stressful on a relationship- especially a new marriage.
2006-08-09 22:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by daisylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, and I don't want to sound rude, but marriage is a big deal, and if the answer is yes, then there would be no thinking about it. You may truely love him but the concerns you listed are all very understandable reasons for the marriage not to work. If you have any doubt in your head you should wait. Love and Marriage is a definate, and there shouldn't be any thinking involved.
2006-08-10 01:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sarah Bear ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it could be successful... look at Jon Bon Jovi.
But then he's the exception.
If your "he" would do anything for you, maybe he should wait until his life provides more time at home with you.
My nephew tours with "bigname" rock band, and the schedule is grueling. I couldn't imagine how he'd keep a wife at home.
Ponder this one carefully, I'll pray that the answer comes to you.
2006-08-09 21:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by socalmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love him the way you say then you would have no trouble saying YES to him. So if you have doubts then think about it before you say yes and then break it off.
2006-08-09 22:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to pick a date that you want to get married on. and then you worry about planning ur wedding. you can't do anything without picking a date to get married on. best of luck and congrats
2006-08-09 21:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not 100% sure, your answer should be either "wait" or "no". Marriage is for the rest of your life - you should know the answer with everything you are.
2006-08-10 03:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by midlandsharon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you felt the need to ask strangers what to do tells me maybe you aren't ready to be married...but go with your heart and do what feels right.
2006-08-10 00:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by ntfd68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "no". He is obviously not anywhere near ready to get married. You shouldn't even consider his proposal.
2006-08-09 21:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone truly you shouldn't be asking this question.Sry!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-10 02:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋