Im not that popular of a guy and i would like to know how to approach a girl properly. Can you help me?

Question

Im a pretty shy guy and not very popular. What is the best approach for me towards a girl. Id appreciate a good answer. Thanks in advance. Also i am 14 years old. And Indian. That last part probably makes no one want to answer this i bet. I hope someone will help me though.

Answer 1

hello

i know how this can be a problem, i'm a seventeen year old girl and am shy myself. so i have the same problem with guys.

what i've found that helps is if you find a girl who is interested in something you like too, say music, movies, sports, ANYTHING. that will give you an easy conversation starter.

also, just be nice and polite, and yourself. politeness is a big turn-on, as well as self-confidence. so just don't doubt yourself. if a girl is rude to you, just brush it off. why would you wanna talk to someone who doesn't want to talk to you? i don't know either. if you don't be yourself when you're getting to know someone, you'll have to keep up that act. no fun.

just don't stress over it. you'll meet girls over the years, some cool ones, some not so cool. just have fun talking and making friends.

i hope some of that helped.

Answer 2

Okay, I seriously hope no one answers because your Indian. I doubt that matters. There are a lot of girls out there that are too shy to approach a guy and will usually leave it up to him to make the first step - no matter how tiny. Smile and make eye contact with the girls in your classes. Start a conversation with a shy girl that you know, even if it is just "Hi. How are You?" or "Boy that math test was tough!" Try it small doses with a few select nice girls and then work up to longer conversations. Really listen to her answers ( we love that) You'll find that it gets easier as you go. Take a deep breath and dive into it. Remember start with the NICE girls not the class hottie, you'll have a better comfort level and start to gain confidence.

Answer 3

Indian, Spanish, German, French, Chinese, none of it matters. All girls are essentially programed the same, just go up to them and say hello, if they want to talk they will, if they dont want to they will let you know TRUST ME. But as everyone who will answer this question will probably say, just be yourself. Everyone will also say to just be confident, but that is easier said then done, however some girls do find a shy guy kind of cute but either way if you can be confident thats clutch. But always give it a shot, better to try and fail then to never try at all.

Answer 4

I'm about your age too, so I've seen your problem before. Try to be more out going and talkative. What I think works best is joining a school sport, or karate, anything that will get you to be more outgoing and less shy. Send me and e-mail @ [e-mail]

Answer 5

Wait till your 16, get a great car and flash the cash. The babes will be all over you. If your a Jock you'll have a added bonus.

Answer 6

your nationality is something to be proud of if i were you i would find something to be very proud of in myself and that will show on the outside then you will have no problem making friends with guys or girls. indians are hot be happy you have that in you most guys try to hide the fact they really don't have any thing hot about them good luck buddy

Answer 7

because you are indian, girls will like you..don't you ever hear the saying about the tall, dark and handsome type? Lucky you!

Answer 8

baby i see no color we are all God children. slowly walk up to her tell her your name if she don't know it and ask her would she like to talk with you she can lonly tell you yes or no but be your self cause you never know who has been watching you smile ps: indian are cute too!

Answer 9

pick up a guitar and join a band

Answer 10

jus b urself gurls luv dont we dont like people bein sum1 ther not