Iam very shy and iam scare a girl will get mad if i talk to them.
2006-08-09 14:34:45 · 32 answers · asked by Ricky L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are all lunatics. Just pretend you're talking to a lunatic and the wow factor really goes down
2006-08-09 14:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that too and i still don't have the answers but i also attract alot of girls when i'm not worried about how cute they look or what i wanna do with them or w/e so i would say just be yourself and stay clear of the going out and making moves part for a while until you get to know her a enough until where you're not shy around her and comfortable then pop a question about maybe dating after like a few days so once you get to the point of talking to her on the phone daily you won't have bad conversations and trust me, i have had tons of bad convo's where we just sit there all quiet and don't know what to say but if that happens don't sweat it, it'll only make you stronger with the next effort or maybe even the same girls feels exactly the same way you do too
2006-08-09 14:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by J.Hefner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl wont get mad, plus if she does, who cares, its not like she is the last chick on earth. There are tons of better ones for you. Confidently, just give a smile and say "hi"; talk about the surroundings and something simple like their interest, why they are at the location you are at, and what they are doing there. Be honest and true, lying is not a good first move -_-, once they find out, you ll be screwed and it ll be a waste of time, if they dont like you for who you are, they arent even worth you time. Don't be scared and back out cause you ll never know that girl you "didn't have the nerve" to go talk to was your soul mate. :) Don't lose the opportunity, take advantage of it and if it doesn't work out, try again until you hit gold. =D Good Luck
2006-08-09 14:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Wonderful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best bet is to wear protective gear, maybe carry a tazer. But seriously, there is no easy way to approach a girl. However as everyone else has said they really arent all that bad, its fairly easy once you get the ball rolling. AND if its a girl you really dont know, if you think about it its even easier, because if she doesnt want to talk she will just say so and you never have to think about it again. Cant hurt to try.
2006-08-09 14:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. a girl will be happier if you talk to them then if you just go up and ask them out.. A good way to approach a girl is, I think, to become friends with her first and then ask for her number after you have kind of established a bit of a friendship. At least.. from a girls perspective that's a good way to do it.. :-)...
2006-08-09 14:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Crazyhpotterfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! You make it sound like we're man-eating tigresses or something! For one, I haven't ever heard of a girl getting mad at a guy for talking to them. The usual reaction is curiousity and/or being flattered. Don't think of it as talking to A GIRL, think of it as talking to an interesting person. A human, just like you... unless you're a net-savvy cat or something! Just walk up and introduce yourself.
2006-08-09 14:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, they won't get mad at you. :) Don't worry about it so much! Just walk up calm and collected and be funny. Not quirky, but funny. Be yourself and you should breeze right though it. If you happen to have a bad conversation, which is possible even with the best strategy, don't sweat it. You learn from your mistakes, and will build up better communicating skills. Trust me, we don't bite. :K ...Always. Lol.
2006-08-09 14:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Slippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wont me mad, she will be flattered it you do it right. just make small talk, start with a simple hi. I like when guys approach me w/ confidence and also I like when they keep my interest. they gotta be sweet too. I've dealt wit alota jerks which Ive chosen to forget but I always remember the sweet ones. u sound sweet so I'm sure u'll do fine and in no time you'll hava girlfriend. good luck!
2006-08-09 16:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by saying hi. that may sound stupid but you need to just do it. most girls are just as shy to approach and talk to guys for fear of rejection. girls will not get mad because you talk to them unless there is something wrong with them. maybe to feel more comfortable you could approach them with a friend. good luck and just go for it. both me and my partner are shy and if it wasnt for my friends helping us.
2006-08-09 14:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U gotta be smart about it. Look at the situation. where is she at, who she with, whats she doing? Try to put urself in the girls shoes and imagine how ud react if a guy approached you. be friendly but not creepy. confident but not rude....use ur best judgement
2006-08-09 14:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by dfgfdfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋