Why some christian guys are so sexual and they want to have sex on the first date? are they real christians?

Question

should or would you judge someone a real christian or not base on their sexual behavior? Be honest please

Answer 1

A committed Christian (who is truly following the teachings of Jesus Christ) would do his/her best to hold off on sex until marriage.

Yes, it is very valid to judge a person based on their behavior.

Jesus makes it clear that not everyone who claims to be a Christian is one.

Only those who do their best to obey Jesus' teachings are true Christians.

Cordially,
John

Answer 2

... Christian guys are definitely not supposed to be wanting sex on the first date at all. >_<

It's one thing to be going out with someone, have some private time, and then have one thing lead to another and slip up. It happens a real lot, and even among Christians, it's hard to find virgins. Christians aren't perfect at all, far from it, actually. The thing is to try to stop living like that. If they're actively seeking sex, especially on the first date, that's something to really watch out for.

If you're looking for a Christian to date... I would stay far away from those kind of 'christians.' That doesn't sound like the real deal at all.

Answer 3

if a christian guy is so sexual and has sex on the first date doesn't mean they are not a christian. they are human and we can ask for gods forgiveness. Satan likes us to fall short of god and will tell us all sorts of things to make us think its alright and that god will not forgive. the real test is not to give in. your right also we shouldn't judge those who have fallin...cause...we all fall short of the glory of god. we all sin and we all are human. no i wouldn't judge that person but i would be a good friend enough to tell them the truth if they asked. remind the judge...they are not perfect either.

Answer 4

True Christian boys do not ever have sex, they have no release of their natural sexual energy, so it builds up to very large intensity, more intense than for a normal guy who would get release one way or another. Then it becomes a problem, the drive is harder to control if it has not had release, so if such a boy finds himself in a stimulating situation, he is far more likely to give in to the temptation of doing something than a normal person who releases their sexual tension in a normal way.

Answer 5

No they'r just slutty christians. This is part of the Hypocrisy some ppl who are not with the church have against christians. Practice what you preach. You are not perfect and thats a given but you are still an example. I think a great example was my grandfather. He read is bible nightly. Always said grace and carried himself well Rarely did he curse and when he did it was out of anger with my grandmother cursing him out.

Answer 6

There is real christians and those who think that going to church on sunday will save there souls. Christianity is 24/7 thing.

Answer 7

Men are ruled mostly by their hormones. Spiritual thoughts come somewhere further down the list. Probably not on the bottom, but close. Desire for the flesh, in what we can see and touch, is often stronger than religious ideals.

Answer 8

They are human. They are men. They are wired by God (and mother natur to be sexual beings. Christians try to make rules the body and nature can't follow and then make you feel guilty for feeling that way.

Answer 9

God made Christians, God made man, man is programmed to pro-create, stop getting mad at us, thats what we were designed to do. A high sex drive was programmed into us by the "CHIEF" !

Answer 10

sex out of marriage is a great sin! i think even the Bible mentions that