Don't judge until you know the whole story. I guess you don't know anyone who proudly serves our country and keep your ungrateful self safe. If we want to get married quick before he is deployed after 5 years of devotion that is exactly what we will do!
2006-08-09 14:30:32 · 7 answers · asked by tia_jenn2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
it's your life ! too many idiots answer to questions on this site just to get points! now that your hubby is across the world..... he has love to come home for!!!!!! that's priceless!!!!!
god bless you both ...... stay strong for the two of you !!!!! tell him I said thanx for fighting for our country...... though i wish they'd all come home... we need them here. take care & good luck!!!!
2006-08-09 14:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by magdalina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not dappersmom, but I did read the previous posts. If you didn't include the additional information the first time around, then dappersmom gave a very thoughtful, helpful answer based on the information she had. You can't blame her for not knowing all the details if you didn't provide them in the first place.
I completely understand why you want to get married. This was a situation two of my close friends were in. My advice would be to have a small, private ceremony with only immediate family and super close friends. These can be planned very quick if your guest list is small enough, especially if you have it at a house or your restaurant. Under 20 people is best. You'd be able to celebrate your marriage with the man you love without giving it a rushed feeling.
You could do a courthouse wedding now and then have a bigger party later, when he comes back. But I assume that you are hesitant to do this, or you probably would have done it already.
Good luck to you!
2006-08-10 03:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey if i were in you're shoes I would have dint the same thing. Cause if my man were getting deployed after 5 years of devotion.then I'd get married really quick too.I don't see anything wrong with that. may you have along and happy marriage. best wishes
2006-08-09 14:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... I'm not Dappersmom... but my daughter was in the same situation where both she and her fiance's deployment schedule was coming up and Heaven forbid anything happened to either one of them. So reasons for speeding things up should be obvious, especially to servicemen and women. I hope things work for you both. Actually I hope he's not deployed, but if it does happen, he'll be lucky to have you waiting for his return. I hope I guessed the situation correctly, but that's what it sounded like.
Take care - Airforce Mom
2006-08-09 14:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by socalmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you got such rude answers. Dappersmom is an ignorant, judgemental, jerk. I tried to leave you as helpful a response as I could. Good luck and blessed be!
2006-08-10 02:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have been together for a long time.
So what if some close-minded idiot doesn't agree with it...
LONG LIVE LOVE!
I truly hope for you and wish you the best!
2006-08-09 14:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a hug for me & tell him how much I appreciate what he & so many others are doing.
Congrats!
2006-08-09 14:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋