Okay well see hes my Ex...after we broke up he wanted nothing to do with me. He got himself a girlfriend and while he was with her ide see him at parties and hed say "Hi" and it felt like he always had me at eye sight. Then he broke up with his girl and he does the same thing. at parties or even when we kick it with the homies he'll always have an eye on me...and he will want to talk to me but never does...then ill go talk to him and he just ignors me...i forgave him for all he did i dont know if hes forgaven me but...is he not over me or is he just being a good friend??? im SO confused
2006-08-09 13:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by Kikkis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is eyeballing you- he's just making sure you're as miserable about the breakup as he is. He's never going to come out and say that, but he's watching you and trying to figure out where you stand also. If you appear to be moving on and are happy, it would be a major blow to his ego, so he has to watch you to figure out how to act around you so he doesn't give himself away. He's trying to appear aloof and casual so you don't think that he goes home and cries in his spaghetti o's at night. I'd come out and ask him what's up. It seems there's a little tension, and some words left unspoken that need to just come out. Ask him what he thinks about the relationship such as it is now. Then go from there.
2006-08-09 14:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you're not over him because you're thinking to much about this. Let him go. Let it go and if he was a real man he'd come to you if he had any feelings for you either way. He probably doesn't want the relationship to be on bad terms after the break up...but don't read too much into it.
2006-08-09 21:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he's over you....but maybe he's too nervous to talk to you straight out, and thats why he keeps watching you (because he wants to but he can't). I can't think of much u can do right now because you've tried talking to him and he wont listen...so all i can think of is to just give it time and maybe he'll someday approach u and you can straighten stuff out. in the meantime, i definitely wouldn;t live your life around him, just maybe treat him as a distant friend or something until he's ready to go further.
2006-08-09 21:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's messing with your head hon. Just ignore him and move on. He's enjoying the power trip he's got over him. And its only because you GIVE him that power. Stop approaching him and let it go.
2006-08-09 21:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may have something for you, but don't think to much about this. If you want, just be his friend. If he ignores you, then don't put much thought on it and forget about him.
2006-08-09 21:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ally C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he wants you again..I think that he went with the other girl to get u jealous ..but you probably didn't get jealous and that when he realized it and dumped her...
I think he still wantz u
2006-08-09 21:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by HaHa Thats Funny!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋