I dont know whats happened to me lately but Im just not interested in women much anymore. Im 27, and Im still attracted to women a great deal, but Im just sick, tired, bored with trying to make things happen. I just dont care about playing stupid games anymore. I feel like anytime I put into a relationship is just going to be a waste of time in the long run. When I have so many other things to do in my life, Im just not interested in pursueing relationships, or impressing women anymore. Is this normal? If so, what does it mean?
2006-08-09 13:55:07 · 18 answers · asked by Slick Mac 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's completely normal. You needed to go through what you did so you can appreciate a woman that is 100% woman all of the time and not some child playing games. Real women don't like drama. Real woman don't need your money. Real women know what they want and aren't afraid to be as strong as they can be and be a soft kitten for her lion man. Try someone a little older, you'll find yourself pleasantly surprised.
Here's to you in your time of rest, Get ready for the best.
2006-08-09 15:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Raylene 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal you have finally grown up. You want a woman who is mature and will to work at a relationship and not play games. Now is the time to do what you want and when the time is right the right woman will be there too. I honestly believe this. My husband said he had given up actively looking for women and did his own thing. I met him at work a little while later and we just clicked. We enjoyed the same things and like the same music. Good Luck
2006-08-09 14:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Getting to the top of the mountain is a lot of work, and it does consume a lot of time- not to mention it's a total craps shoot- you have no idea if all that time and energy you invested is going to take you where you expect to go with someone. Take a break for a while, and do some other exciting things. Then go full force back into dating when you have the time and energy to devote to it, and when you feel like you're ready to. Good luck!
2006-08-09 13:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. Sometimes we just get emotional tired and do not want to be involved. That phase wears off in some people in others it does not. Look at the number of bachelors in your area.
2006-08-09 14:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. I used to be the same way when I was in the dating scene. I have a boyfriend now and luckily I haven't been bored with him. I look forward to seeing him every day.
2006-08-09 14:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. It means that you aren't just chasing tail anymore. Wait it out, and you'll find one that you actually like talking to, and share interests with. That'll make a difference.
2006-08-09 13:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is very true! Some women play games too much. they think men like to be flirted with and then get mad when you don't pickup the signs.
2006-08-09 14:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by mikehendley55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perfectly normal and you might be GAY!! i'm just kidding. honestly the best thing you can do for yourself is do what you want and worry about a relationship when it happens. i hear ya about the whole game thing. most of us just want sex whenever we want it without the relationship part. when the time is ready for you to settle down you'll know.
2006-08-09 14:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur just not with the right gal yet thats all there will be somone who interests u and men and women are 2 dif creatures so its not all happy happy 100% there will ur own thoughts and things u do ..
2006-08-09 14:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take some time off... concentrate on things that are happening right now... maybe non of them were interesting enough
2006-08-09 13:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋